You have a very myoptic view of reality then.
You are spectacularly missing the point!
This isn't about what reality is like. We know that. Life involved huge amounts of suffering, death, pain, etc - not least for innocent children.
The issue is about why god chose to make life like that. You seem to be taking contradictory positions - that life
has to be like this, but also that god
chose to make it like this.
Suffering is the human condition.
Only because god chose to make it that way. He didn't have to (or did he?)
The fact that someone suffers more or less doesn't change the fact that all can experience eternal bliss.
What kind of an argument is that?
Again, you are torturing one of your children but letting the other play with toys, and your justification for the disparity is that they will
both get ice-cream after. It's a monstrous idea.
In reality we don't even really know who suffers the most because one person can come through horrific experiences and take steps to recover while another can suffer less and choose to remain in his sadness.
You have no idea what you are talking about, do you?
You want to focus solely on children for some unknown reason.
*sigh*
No. This has been explained by several people. The "innocent child dying in agony from a congenital condition" is used because it eliminates any (admittedly deranged) sense of a "deserved punishment". Although you seem to think that everyone deserves whatever happens to them.
Well, if I had died at ten years of age I would have had an nearly perfect existence. I would have experienced very little grief or emotional stress. Should I wish for that? No, I don't think so, because life is a gift, even for the suffering.
If you had never existed, you would not have missed life.
Also, you subscribe to that bizarre and disturbing "suffering is good" dogma.
We look around and we say " That horrible person! How evil he is to hurt others.".. usually when we have hurt others too, just in less obvious ways.
Again, you seem to think that forgetting a child's birthday is in some way comparable to murdering the child. I really do worry for you and those around you.
If you want to do something about evil in the world, the only place to start is inside yourself, by giving God permission to work on your own evil. We all have that option.
You may be full of evil and a danger to children, but I am not. And neither are most of the people I know.
But the issue here is that if god has created evil because he needs there to be evil in the world, what can anyone do about it? Are you saying that you can change god's perfect creation? Remember that this is "the best of possible worlds". Why do you want to do anything about the evil in it?