When
Pah said (referencing a post I directed for NetDoc's specific attention):
It's difficult to have polite, informative debate without respect for social rules.
NetDoc (Hiya!) replied:
This is somewhat off topic, so I will address it once here and then no more.
Famous last words...;-)
I am NOT OBLIGED to read or answer bombastic posts by anyone on here: you, s2a, whomever.
I am NOT OBLIGED to answer every point of every post. Especially if they are inflammatory or inane or quotes someone who posts that way.
So, I may surmise by your
innuendo and implied
inference, that
my posts...addressed for
your attention and benefit,
NetDoc; are therefore
inflammatory (or in internet lexicon..."flames"; or such commentaries are "
inane" (ie, "
lacking sense, significance, or ideas" -
Dictionary.com)
[Addendum:
Flame-
"
Originally, "flame" meant to carry forth in a passionate manner in the spirit of honorable debate. Flames most often involved the use of flowery language and flaming well was an art form. More recently 'flame' has come to refer to any kind of derogatory comment no matter how witless or crude."
--
Glossary of Internet Terms]
If you want respect, you must give it. If you want me to answer, than show a modicum of respect.
And this is
why you receive the
minimal measure of respect you receive, versus the copious or unquestionable level of respect you obviously feel you are
owned or
due.
Respect is
earned; not injudiciously doled out like so much rewarding candy and treats to like-minded sycophants, and trick-or-treaters at your door on Halloween.
NOBODY
OWES YOU RESPECT.
NOBODY.
[Get
used to that concept. Especially in matters worthy of debate.]
I can
respect your
constitutionally protected guarantee to voice your
opinion absent governmental persecution, and your
right to free exercise of your chosen faith-based beliefs...but neither aforementioned constitutionally provided protection
entitles you to my respect or countenance as being otherwise merited or fairly/estimably valued as equally balanced, tantamount, or proportionate.
To quote another "
disrespectful" kinda guy:
"
...error of opinion may be tolerated where reason is left free to combat it."
--
Thomas Jefferson's First Inaugural Address
Why you remain confused or perturbed by the simple fact that a (your) protected right to freely express your views/opinions does not ENTITLE you to any measure of
respect for those expressed views, utterly escapes my reptilian mindset. Whether you
wish to proclaim that some invisible deity controls the destiny of the cosmos, or that some alien overlord has dumped millions of otherworld captured "souls" into a volcano for timely attachment to the existent people of contemporary times,...I
really don't care.
Both claims are
equal bunk in my estimation. I retain no "respect" for
either philosophical "viewpoint".
But I
do respect the rule of law that allows
you to not only
retain such a belief, but to "preach" that faith-based belief to
as many prospective adherents as will allow you the
opportunity to do so. That's how much "faith" (ie, optimistic wishful thinking) I have in the inexorable daily/weekly/annual application of logic, reason, and...civil discussion/debate.
Participation on this forum is not compulsory. I will answer or post when and where I want.
Bully for you. How..."unexpected".
I respect your SCOTUS-ruled right to freedom of individualized decision in matters of personal choice/discretion. All hail Roe v. Wade!
You are free to ignore my answers if this doesn't fit your needs.
My
needs are most poorly suited or addressed by
your commentaries.
However it is never appropriate to abandon politeness in any debate. How I wish that I was never guilty of doing so.
Indeed...Yet
another example of a
failed rationale and vapid view.
Debates
aren't popularity contests, nor prone to "respectable" measures of relative/subjective beauty/bias/attraction.
Debates
are about: the soundness; foundations established thereof; and predicately prospective validity; of supportive evidence-based arguments... established in both initial premise and proffered conclusion.
Done effectively and well, you might hope for some elements of
earned respect. Evasion, deflection, and ignoring salient points in such exchanges will earn you little to no respect amongst either your supporters or adversaries in debate
The point of this entire discussion centers around the condescension and even ridicule felt by many theists when discussing what and why they believe.
Yawn.
Again, (just to accept yor lent asumption fair consideration), what's your point? Does any ridicule of your beliefs serve to either enhance, or minimize/diminish your faith? Is there any sort of reliable test of faith and piety that I might call by name and/or hit upon in a moment of weakness?
You have repeatedly inferred (and anonymously accused/implied) that atheists are arrogant, egotistical, intellectual bounders that dare to presume their opinionated perspectives as superior.
At worst (
really, at the very worst) atheists are "no better" than many theists espousing or evangelizing their faith-based beliefs as veritable/estimable "fact".
At best, adherents of faith-based beliefs deem themselves on a logical par with non-adherents who fairly represent themselves as being intellectually satisfied in/with the notion of "
I don't know".
Surety of position has
never been a guarantor of either accuracy, or ANY deservedly earned respect (just ask George W. Bush).
The real crux of the matter is one of equal respect. You can ignore our pleas or deny it happens, but don't be surprised if more and more theists avoid those "informative debates" with many atheists.
Deny the pleas? It is easy enough to acknowledge they exist. Do the protestations have any validity or merit? Is, "
Run Away!" a compelling or persuasive argument in any sort of reasoned, candid, and civil (tho' not always "polite") debate? I hope not.
Dare to answer the pointed questions put to you.
Dare to validly support and evidentially defend your faith-based claims with candor, and prima facie acknowledgments of stated points (you need concede nothing in answer).
You want to know what's
rude?
It's
rude to purposefully
ignore someone that addresses
you by name, and tenders you specified inquiry. It's
rude to pretend that folks that make you feel uncomfortable, or angry, or or anxious, or moved to any action beyond your personal realm of comfort...just don't exist in your elevated realm of ethos.
{God forbid that anyone might deem such behavior as "delusional" tho'...].
I make especial effort--even in my admittedly limited engagements in commentary/discussion/debate here in REF--to AT VERY LEAST lend specific and pointed answer/rebuttal to specific/pointed challenges/questions/inquiries put to me for considered reply. You know why I do so? Because I was raised to understand that it is RUDE (and yes, obnoxious) to pretend that the person addressing me personally does not exist, or that they are otherwise unworthy of my attentions...or respect.
I may tender you no measure of respect for what you believe or say, but I have enough respect for your person to offer you answer to anything you might say in my regard--either directly, or by means of some indirect and ch!cken**** innuendo.
If you could offer the same level of respect in my regard, you might then earn the lacking respect you wantonly seek to your present avail.
[Note: Since you claim that you don't indulge your high-minded self to bother to read my commentaries tailored for your consideration, I must trust to one of your lurking supportive and "respectful" sycophants to lend you the "Cliff Notes" version of the above Too bad I can't respect that...].