cardero
Citizen Mod
Jringer04 writes: Sounds very similar to the reason that the church of Corinth probably used back in the day. They prided themselves with their Greek thinking of absolute freedom including their sexuality. I might not be able to tell you what you should do with your life but you'll be answering to somebody someday and will be held accountable for it. There is nothing "honest" about an open marriage.
I can only present you the truth from observable experience. The evidence stands that in some cases the person that someone is with now has had one or many partners before their current relationship and may encourage other intimate relationships after this one dissolves. Marriage offers a faithful commitment to two people but does not give anyone the truth or right to own or posess another’s body. The evidence that people must sneak and hide to enact extra-marital affairs often leads to lying, deception and mistrust. An open and honest dialogue between two mature adults about the expectation of an adulterous encounter may not erase the hurt that this truth will happen but would be a more considerate, respectful approach then someone sneaking around. At lease both will know where they stand or be able to choose their footing.
Jringer04 writes: I might not be able to tell you what you should do with your life but you'll be answering to somebody someday and will be held accountable for it.
I am not quite sure who or what you are referring to here.
The only honesty that comes with any relationship that involves two or more people is the consent and the respect that people offer to share to the relationship. Honesty, trust and even love does not begin or end with sex or the marriage ceremony.Jringer04 writes: There is nothing "honest" about an open marriage.