I believe I already have, but you clearly stated: You have to understand that I don't accept the way you appear to be defining "love" any more Than I accept the various definitions of god that I'm aware of.
Thus, you are rejecting whatever it is I put forth.
Somehow, I've got to try and make you see what I'm saying. You don't get it (as, I admit, I also do not get what you're saying, so in one sense we're on a level playing field). I am not rejecting "whatever [you] put forth." I am saying that defining one thing by calling it another undefined thing provides no additional information. So, let's move on and see how you define that other thing...
I think not-statements do help understand / describe it. To say that is inherently meaningless would mean atheism is arguably inherently meaningless (via not believing).
In my view, not-statements provide nothing at all in the absence of some prelimary positive definition. I could have provided a great many positive statements about pomegranates (a fruit, red, seeds, juicy, edible but why bother?, used to make sickly-sweet syrup grenadine, etc.), but if I don't do any of that, then simply saying what it is not will tell you just about precisely nothing.
I can provide understandings of love that do not utilize not-statements. I can also do so without relying on emotional feeling, yet that last part is debatable, for anything can be put in that category if one wants it there. Knowledge can be an emotional feeling.
Another definition that I disagree with. I can feel good (or bad) about knowing something, but I do not think that knowledge
itself is an emotional feeling. Knowledge is the possession of information that truly corresponds to your accepted (believed) reality. JTB.
But in the interest of being fair with what you asked, and with understanding that you'll likely reject whatever I put forth, I'll give you a couple of such assertions:
- Love is the desire (or idea) to give (all of) what you have to all (or at least willingness to give to someone).
- Love knows that strength is gained by giving / sharing what you have
*Wish to note that I could've stipulated both assertions with contrasts to how things appear to work in this world, and why those might not seem accurate, but chose instead to maintain positive assertions only.
I'd like you to look at your definitions again. The first contains the words "desire (or idea)", "you" and "someone." The second contains the words "knows," "giving," and "you." All of these imply something really important -- agency.
But by implying that "love" itself, alone, is the agent, you are now turning a human-language-defined word into something altogether other, and still not showing how "love" manages to be both the agent and the result -- at one and the same time.
Not accurate. I say in previous post "God equals Love." If you need that parsed out, I'll also say "God means Love to me." I also said this entity is not over yonder, but is within. That means to me that God is within Me (and You). Felt I was explicit with that. Said other things about what it means to me to understand God within context of my life, all life, and how this relates to forgiveness.
And here, you are talking quite explicitly about yourself, and then trying to impute your own meanings and desires to some other agency.
Isn't it good enough being you?
Love has no requirements.
Does it not? As its own agency, or as something expressed (felt) by some other agency?
And more to the point, if love as no requirements, then there is nothing to fulfill, and no matter at all whether it exists or not.
I desire (wouldn't say require) God/Spirit communicate with me in some fashion daily. Usually multiple times a day. I receive such communications in discernible ways often. I would argue that God never stops speaking with Us, but admit I don't always have awareness of experiencing that.
I call that living in, observing and thinking about the world. And I too miss things sometimes. Probably walked right by a lost $20 recently, for all I know!
I would forego Knowledge. I imagine I would resort to a position where doubt and fear would be my primary guides.
Now, here I'm going to provide some deeply personal stuff -- might make you hate me, but here goes.
Do you really think that not believing in God means you would "forego Knowledge" and be guided only by doubt and fear? Without belief in God you wouldn't know who won the last World Series, or how many floors the Empire State Building has? That you would lose hope?
I was a battered child, and taken over by Children's Aid at an early age. Nearly killed by step-father, thrown out of high school and dumped on the streets at 17, knowing little about survival. I was good looking so I earned money by selling my body -- not a nice thing, I assure you. Eventually found work, then went to night school, became an accountant, then learned programming, eventually winding up Vice President of Information Technology for a major international insurance company.
Through all that time -- and without ever having had the glimmer of a belief in God (or your version of Love, though I have loved) -- I never lost my hope, and neither doubt nor fear was every my guide. Knowledge and hope were!
God / Spirit does not want. Though I would think in some technical semantical way, I could concede to idea of God wanting, but would be a bunch of semantical stuff occurring.
Which would lead -- with proven certainty -- to religion. Always has.
I use proper noun as a way to distinguish from generic form of god(s). That I am referencing a particular God, in vein of Gnostic Christianity.
But whether you capitalize or do not, you still conceive of god(s) and God as personal -- I have never, ever seen a description of god(s) or God that was not in some way an agent.
I have either no issue, or very little with referencing 'it' as god (and would know for myself what I mean). Also have very little issue with referencing it with Flying Spaghetti Monster, or Yahweh, or Spirit, or perhaps countless other symbolic representations, and would know what I mean by it.
Yes, but would anybody else?