I'm mostly basing what I said from what some Muslim friends have actually admitted. It's possible that I'm misunderstanding it, but only in so far that my friends have misunderstood. Whether a Muslim lies or not in their sales pitch is irrelevant as I'm unlikely to be convinced either way.
Addressing the OP again, we don't need more laws dictating our behavior, but a combination of cultivating genuine civility and more resistance to whatever is considered offensive. "Stick and stones..." you know? Why must every offense be rectified? Isn't it better to cultivate a state of mind resistant to any disturbance?
I'm with you on this. I referred to that nursery rhyme myself earlier (in this thread I think) as a piece of vital human wisdom which westerners learn in childhood.
In case any of our muslim friends don't know it it is -
"Sticks and stones may break my bones,
But names will never hurt me".
The intent of the rhyme is precisely to work against one of the worst of the
'nafs al amarra' - pride and self-cherishing.
' Nafs' are 'the commanding forces of ego', and the qualification ' amarra' refers to the nafs which incite evil actions.
In my opinion, one of the most unfortunate tendencies in muslim culture is to treat this particular affliction of pride as a virtue, and to call it 'honor'.
I once realised that whatever teaching is predominant in a particular culture, is so because that culture is particularly in need of it.
Islam means submission. And it seems clear to me that the arabic people are very prone to this idea of
'honor', which is actually rampant and belligerent ego posing as a virtue -one the worst of the nafs al amarra which people must deal with.
To even imagine that there should be general riots and indiscriminate murdering of westerners because of the words spoken, or cartoons drawn, by a few westerners is indicative of a serious psychological issue within the muslim community - the failure of the capacity to
submit and accept, to show patience and tolerance with those who do not agree with their beliefs, or even deliberately provoke them. I would say to muslims, using their own terms - shaitan is using your concept of 'honor' to humiliate and destroy your religion from within your own culture.
And on the subject of 'lying in the cause of Islam' - yes, in debates I have followed on other forums, muslims have admitted that this is how many muslims behave and interpret certain Islamic teachings, it is not my misunderstanding ( though, from a strict scriptural perspective, it may be theirs).