ImmortalFlame
Woke gremlin
The way I see it, the only people who can truly claim to have a mere "lack of belief" are:
1. People who have never heard of god concepts, and therefore have no knowledge about the subject.
2. People who are completely apathetic about the subject and have never thought about it long enough to form an opinion. (note: if you are debating on a religious forum about it, this means you do not qualify for this category.)
3. "True" agnostics, in the popular sense. These are the people who believe that the evidence for and against god is equally weighted. They believe that it is just as likely for god to exist as it is for god not to exist, and therefore, cannot be said to have an opinion either way.
Then the problem is that you seem to have a needlessly broad view of what constitutes "belief" and a needlessly narrow view of what constitutes "lack of belief".Do you fall into any of the above categories? If not, then no. If you do not fall into one of the above categories, then I do not believe you merely lack a belief that a deity exists.
I lack a belief in a God - which means I either don't believe there IS a God, or I believe that IS NOT a God. In my case, I don't believe that there is a God, but I do not believe that there is NOT a God. You lack a belief in something until that thing is demonstrated to you to be true, and lacking that belief does not mean you believe a contrary claim. I really don't see why this definition of atheism troubles you so much. It's precisely what the word means and what makes most sense.