I don't like to even use the words "god" and "deity" because they are far too often presumed to indicate something shaped by Abrahamic expectations.
Generally speaking I tend to view gods as personifications of some combination of concepts, values, ethnic origins, virtues or ideals.
Part of that is accepting that their exact meanings and roles are to a significant degree a personal matter tied with a corresponding degree of personal responsibility. Not very usual in Abrahamic environments, but a central element of god-related practice as I see it. Belief is no substitute for sincere effort of discernment IMO.
Myself, I like best the deities that are strongly tied to ideals of transcendence and/or feminility. It goes back to the time when I was part of an Occultism group (long story) and was told the tale of when Isis rescued Osiris from destruction. It just felt right, felt like a nugget of valuable wisdom in the form of a tale.
Later I learned of Shaktism and to this day find it intriguing, although I must hasten to add that I have very little notion of what it actually is like. I would love to have the opportunity to find out in person, though. Of course, I have to assume that the actual value of the experience is as much a factor of choosing wisely as of anything else.
Speaking from a very personal level, I tend to think of Shakti as a principle as well as a category of sorts; full blown, powerful reminders that there are times to let go of our cravings and appreciate the sacred miracles of what is. At the risk of being perhaps too personal, I will also say that I associate Shakti with my situations of duty meeting inadequacy.
In a very real sense, Shakti is to me a reminder that I can't always afford to be worthy of what I pursue or fortunate enough to be given the choice. Situations of having to make do as I actually am at any given moment are all too real and often both humbling and inspiring, and I think of Shakti at those times. It helps me focus.
Is that wrong? Beats me. I don't know who would have the authority to tell me either way, either. Maybe I will someday.