i am of the opinion that sexuality cannot be defined, for lack of a better word.
yes of course there are those who find themselves on either end of the scale
and there are those who find themselves in between...
i agree with this:
"It is a characteristic of the human mind that tries to dichotomize in its classification of phenomena
.Sexual behavior is either normal or abnormal, socially acceptable or unacceptable, heterosexual or homosexual; and many persons do not want to believe that there are gradations in these matters from one to the other extreme.
The Kinsey Institute - Kinsey Sexuality Rating Scale [Research Program]
for me i have never had a sexual encounter with another woman mostly because of my
upbringing and being indoctrinated at such a young age into believing that my inclination to have crushes on girls as well was wrong and something to be ashamed of. now i'm married and even though i've never "gone there", i can't help wonder how different my life would be today...had i been free to experiment with my sexuality. i am also of the opinion that i am not the only one
so as far as the scale is concerned, i wouldn't know how to rate myself.
sure there have been fantasies...but what does that mean? i can't say i would enjoy the real experience...
i laughed at the scene in the movie, "the kids are alright" when the gay female couple got off on watching gay male porn...
sexuality is strange i suppose. it's a part of life we find ourselves constantly coming to terms with