I translate that into “no answer will be a good answer” for you.
I translate your words into "I have no answer that will convince you," and that's undoubtedly correct, but there are two possibilities why that is the case. Either he's a motivated thinker evaluating evidence and arguments through a confirmation bias dedicated to protecting his faith-based belief from your compelling evidenced argument, or, he's an educated and experienced critical thinker who requires evidence that you don't have before believing you.
And if it's the latter, that's either because although you've guessed correctly, you haven't found the evidence yet which confirms that you have, or because you're wrong. Either way, he's correct to dismiss the claims about souls or any other similar claim.
By and large with non-theists and atheists, on this forum, it is more of the pounding of positions that it is a sharing of ideas or thoughts.
This is an interesting phenomenon to me - the difference between the way the faithful and the critical thinkers frame this activity we both participate in here. Each group makes its best arguments, and the former is offended or feels attacked or sees the disagreement as mean-spirited, inappropriate, or immoral. You see yourself as sharing thoughts and those disagreeing with you as pounding their position despite the fact that each is doing the same thing as the other.
Some of it might be the one-sidedness of these discussions. Yes, both sides are making their cases according to their beliefs, values, and agendas, but that's where the symmetry ends. It really is a rout, and the faithful surely sense that and their impotence in these discussions with critical thinkers, who come armed with facts and reasoned arguments.
That might be some of the explanation, but I think the general disdain theists feel for atheists plays a role as well, since so many Abrahamists have been taught that these discussion are battles between good versus evil and that atheists are bad people with bad intent, trying to make themselves gods in order to live licentious, hedonistic lives unaccountably.
Whatever the explanation, see if you don't notice that I'm correct here. Whenever you read some form of "you're a meanie" in these threads, it will always be a believer directing it to somebody rebutting him and never the other direction.