standing_alone
Well-Known Member
Now that I got your attention... (Poll to follow)
Note: I'm using "queer" as an umbrella term for the various identities in the sexual minority community.
Additional Note: I placed this thread in General Discussion precisely because I don't want it to be a debate and felt it was an issue of importance enough for all to consider not to put it into the "safe," Rainbow Room subforum.
Yet Another Additional Note: To other sexual minorities (and straight allies, too): I understand I phrased this in terms of the "heterosexual/homosexual" binary, which is indeed narrow of me (I do this for sake of simplicity in phrasing), but please don't let this discourage you from participating.
One thing I often notice remarked by certain individuals in any of the bazillion threads RF has had dealing with homosexuality or homosexual rights is that homosexuals get too sensitive or emotional over "homosexual issues"--basically, as is hinted, to the point of their objections to bigotry, homophobia, heterosexism, or whatever other name you give that ignorant phantom, as being irrational or ridiculous.
I feel that those criticising the homosexual posters for their objections do not have a good understanding of where the homosexual posters are coming from or what experiences they have had that make them respond as such.
So what I want to ask the "Queer" Community at RF is:
Have you ever experienced (what you would determine) severe intimidation, be it physical intimidation, psychological intimidation, economic intimidation, etc, because of your actual (or perceived) "queerness?"
(Basically, what I mean is, have you experienced "gay bashing" in which you were either beat up or physically-threatened in some significant way, verbally-harrassed/taunted, or discriminated in the workplace or with housing, (by an individual or small group of individuals) etc.--I want to keep this thread away from discussing marriage inequality, the ENDA legislation, Don't Ask/Don't Tell, etc. if at all possible).
If you are comfortable with discribing any of your particular experiences, feel more than free to go into them, if not, the poll is private and no need to post about them. Also feel free (anyone) to comment about anything you think relevant to the topic.
I hope a discussion of this would demonstrate to those who think homosexuals are irrational or ridiculous in their responses to certain perspectives just why those homosexuals may be responding in the way they are... Probably a lot to hope for with a "gay thread."
Note: I'm using "queer" as an umbrella term for the various identities in the sexual minority community.
Additional Note: I placed this thread in General Discussion precisely because I don't want it to be a debate and felt it was an issue of importance enough for all to consider not to put it into the "safe," Rainbow Room subforum.
Yet Another Additional Note: To other sexual minorities (and straight allies, too): I understand I phrased this in terms of the "heterosexual/homosexual" binary, which is indeed narrow of me (I do this for sake of simplicity in phrasing), but please don't let this discourage you from participating.
One thing I often notice remarked by certain individuals in any of the bazillion threads RF has had dealing with homosexuality or homosexual rights is that homosexuals get too sensitive or emotional over "homosexual issues"--basically, as is hinted, to the point of their objections to bigotry, homophobia, heterosexism, or whatever other name you give that ignorant phantom, as being irrational or ridiculous.
I feel that those criticising the homosexual posters for their objections do not have a good understanding of where the homosexual posters are coming from or what experiences they have had that make them respond as such.
So what I want to ask the "Queer" Community at RF is:
Have you ever experienced (what you would determine) severe intimidation, be it physical intimidation, psychological intimidation, economic intimidation, etc, because of your actual (or perceived) "queerness?"
(Basically, what I mean is, have you experienced "gay bashing" in which you were either beat up or physically-threatened in some significant way, verbally-harrassed/taunted, or discriminated in the workplace or with housing, (by an individual or small group of individuals) etc.--I want to keep this thread away from discussing marriage inequality, the ENDA legislation, Don't Ask/Don't Tell, etc. if at all possible).
If you are comfortable with discribing any of your particular experiences, feel more than free to go into them, if not, the poll is private and no need to post about them. Also feel free (anyone) to comment about anything you think relevant to the topic.
I hope a discussion of this would demonstrate to those who think homosexuals are irrational or ridiculous in their responses to certain perspectives just why those homosexuals may be responding in the way they are... Probably a lot to hope for with a "gay thread."