What framework?
As I understand D'Souza's analogy:
- he wanted a marriage that would look a specific way decades in the future.
- he realized that he had no rational basis to say whether that outcome would happen.
- using wishful thinking, he decides that this outcome will happen and uses that as the basis for his decision to marry.
That's ridiculous. Who does that? Who would say to their sweetheart, effectively, "I have a concept of how I want us to be from now until far into the future. I have no idea if you'll be able to fit into the box I've designed for you, but I'm going to insist that you fit into it regardless."
That's not a relationship based on love.
I suspect - or maybe just hope - that D'Souza actually loves and respects his partner, and the strained analogy was mostly fabricated so that it would be relevant to the point he wanted to make.
Then lets use a different framework.
But faith is completely rational. Why? Because where empirical evidence can’t go, it’s not unreasonable to believe on it in faith. Let’s say, for example, you’re making any kind of a decision …Lets say start a business. You can do all the research, the sums and bring in all the evidence that shows it can work. And yet if you’re still asking the question …will I be able to ensure this business will survive for the next thirty years? You’re never going to have the full answer. Now, you can be an agnostic and doubt the effort one put into obtaining and confirming the evidence.” But the data that shows for certain the future survival of the business will never come in. If you wait the business may never start. So you put in all the effort and resources you can, and the leap of faith is a completely rational bridge from knowledge to action."
RegardsTony