QUOTE]You knew what to look for? Throw us a bone...what does one look for? How did you make that connection? [/QUOTE]
I'll give you an example.
Before I became a Christian.
I could never understand forgiveness. How could you forgive someone who hurt you or your family. It was a big stumbling block for me. I was sued by a former employee on behalf of the Fed Gov for the tune of $300 Million. Long story short, the case was dismissed, and the Fed Judge ruled that I specifically had acted in the best interest of the Gov. 2 years of legal wrangling, pleading, depositions and the like, and the Judge said the same thing I had said 2 years ago. I wanted blood. It took time away from my family. It put doubt in how I would be able make living for 2 years. My family and I were in suspended animation for 2 years. Your damn right I wanted blood. I wanted revenge (I'm Italian). Revenge (civil law suit) was my narrowly focus obsession. I was obsessed with it. It consumed me like a cancer. My daughter at the time was in pre-school at a local church. One day I had to pick her up from school, which was rare, and I ran into the pastor. I had to wait, and we chat for a bit. I could not wait to leave. Then he starts to tell me about forgiveness. He says that we are doing more than forgiving others, but it is releasing the anger, hate and hurt in us. He said that if we didn't we it devour us from the inside. Then he said that "Why let someone have space in your head that doesn't pay rent?" I was waiting for the Jesus says "this" and the Jesus said "that", but my daughter was free and we left. What he said made sense. This former employee was now consuming my life, because I was the one letting him. I was the one now that hurting my family. How could I forgive myself for doing exactly what he did to us? I forgave him, and I dropped everything. Cost me some money. I knew this person had other factors that played in to his decisions, and instead black balling him from an industry I knew(which was a recommendation), I recommended him for other employment, and allowed him to use me as a reference. I had peace of mind.
Now that I believe, and I can see that it was God working in my life. What were the chances of me having to pick my daughter up during the work day, her being late from class and me meeting and having a polite non descript conversation with someone I had little respect for his views. A conversation that impacts me today. It could have been a coincidence. To me a coincidence is finding $20 when you loose $20. To see God's hand is to find $20 when you need the $20.
It works for me, and it may not work for you, that's between you and your God.