Ella S.
Well-Known Member
First question: Cannot a lie be less harmful than reality, sometimes? There is a film about a man who taken to a prison labor camp. His son is too young to understand what is going on and smuggles himself in with his father. The father is surprised and afraid for his son. He gets his son to believe they are playing a game of extreme hide & seek lasting for days and weeks, hiding from the guards. This saves his son's life. It seems that in this case at least that a lie is better than the truth. The film about it is titled Life is Beautiful, and it is directed by Roberto Benigni So can't a lie be less harmful or even beneficial, and does the father in this film do wrong to his son by lying?
To me, the point of morality isn't to escape pain or death. It doesn't make sense, within my moral framework, to justify lying by appealing to the consequences. Lying disgraces our intellect, regardless of whether it would be less harmful. It harms our character, which is more important than any bodily damage we might incur.
What if a person claims that they believe there is a particular supernatural being who exists but the person does not try to prove it and does not try to convince anyone through evidence or bribe through promises? For example they do not use creationist arguments or show pictures of footprints or act like there is a miracle. So what if they make claims for themselves but do not peddle evidences or promises?
It doesn't matter. If something is incorrect, then it's better to know the truth. It's still important to educate them, nobody should be left behind in the shadows of ignorance. They're less of a priority, though, so in practice there usually isn't much I could do for someone like that beyond one or two discussions.
Expanding on the comment about being a buzzkill: what if it is more than being a buzzkill? For example what if its a person who could die of stress? What if its some other situation in which the timing is very bad to liberate a person? I recall a film called The Matrix in which a hypothetical scenario appears, and one of the characters named 'Morpheous' says "We do not free a mind if it is too old. If it is too old it will reject reality, because it is too used to the matrix." (paraphrasing) What Morpheous suggests is that someone might go crazy were they to know the truth after living with the lie for a long time. That might be more than a buzzkill. What if it were that bad?
Then you do your best to prepare them for it. There is information out there that, to the unprepared mind, can cause incredible stress or even psychological trauma when it's learned. However, through coping mechanisms, contextual framing, and easing them into the information bit by bit, you can still help individuals digest the information.
Infohazards are real, but the answer isn't to just cut people off from knowing them. Luckily, most infohazards don't require lies to keep out of the hands of those who are susceptible to them and, since we have the internet, they are freely available to whoever feels prepared enough to search them out.
Deconversion from religion is traumatic. It's a horrible experience. At the same time, everyone I know who has gone through it is glad that they were "pulled out of the Matrix," so to say. The pragmatic reality of the situation is that it causes more issues to continue living in a lie.
Last edited: