Neither is Bigfoot. To accept Bigfoot, I'd need to give up skepticism and critical thought.
That alone is what keeps such unevidenced concepts - gods, Bigfoot, leprechauns, devils, djinns - from becoming beliefs.
What you are advocating is for the rational skeptic to deactivate his defense against accepting false beliefs. One ought to care whether what he believes is accurate, since he is going to be making decisions based on his mental map of reality. Like a literal folding map, if the picture shown isn't an accurate depiction of the roads out there (reality), then one will have difficulty arriving at some desired destination.
That is true about every claim or belief that is false. Is it ever true about any correct idea? What would it mean to say that an idea was correct but that there could be no evidence of it?
Answers that come from within are about oneself and are of ones own creation. They are not received. They are generated from within.
How is trusting in a god one has to believe in by faith an act of courage? To me, it's a sin against the self to believe without sufficient justification. That's what one who is trying to exploit another needs him to do - believe without justification. And they call it a virtue.
The religion did not deliver on its promises. I suspended disbelief for years on the hope that if this god existed, what seemed irrational would later seem otherwise, like a pair of shoes that don't fit exactly right until one walks in them for awhile. If foot pain due to shoes not fitting can stand in for the cognitive dissonance that arises from trying to believe an idea that sounds wrong. then the foot pain never disappeared. The shoes (religion) never fit. So I removed them and tried a different pair, one based in skepticism, empiricism, reason, and compassion rather than received answers accepted uncritically. A better fit.
You can see why I don't want to buy another pair of those shoes.
I got better results outside of religion than in it. That's why I've stayed there for about four decades, and have good reason to keep it that way.
I don't reject the possibility of gods. But I need more than that to believe that they exist. I'm interested in what exists (actual), which is a subset of what might exist (potential).
This is an odd comment. Are you assuming that you have something to offer here, some kind of enlightenment to release others from what you consider ignorance?
I'd say it's the other way around. What is faith except self-enforced ignorance? You've probably seen the quotes I like to reproduce of faith-based thinkers bragging about their faith in the Bible such that they are closed off to evidence. That's self-imposed ignorance. Whatever they don't know now that conflicts with their Bibles, they can never know. Here's self-imposed ignorance and closed-mindedness in the extreme. Here's one of those:
- "The moderator in the debate between Bill Nye and Ken Ham on whether creationism is a viable scientific field of study asked, 'What would change your minds?' Scientist Bill Nye answered, 'Evidence.' Young Earth Creationist Ken Ham answered, 'Nothing. I'm a Christian.' Elsewhere, Ham stated, 'By definition, no apparent, perceived or claimed evidence in any field, including history and chronology, can be valid if it contradicts the scriptural record."
I used to be there with them, but I tunneled out. Here's another example:
- “If somewhere in the Bible I were to find a passage that said 2 + 2 = 5, I wouldn't question what I am reading in the Bible. I would believe it, accept it as true, and do my best to work it out and understand it."- Pastor Peter laRuffa
Please explain why you think people that reject this kind of thinking are ignorant rather than those who embrace it.
I've already made my "faith choice." No to belief by faith. It can't possibly be a path to truth, since one can pick any idea, however wrong, and accept it by faith. I'm looking for correct answers, not comforting ones, so I have chosen a different method of deciding what is true about the world.
Refusing to believe by faith is what protects one from those peddling false beliefs. Insisting on subjecting all ideas to critical analysis is the best defense one has against accumulating wrong ideas. You want me to let down that guard to accept your idea. You say it like that would be a virtue rather than a logical error. It's not. It's merely the will to believe, untethered to reality by evidence. I call that a bad way to think.
I'm simply not interested in any idea that only be believed by faith. That's pretty much the definition of a wrong idea - something that you won't find supporting evidence for in reality, so, if you're going to believe it, you'll need to do so for no good reason. I have experience with this method of thinking from my Christian days, and perhaps the worse mistake I ever made was made because I was willing to believe by faith something for which there was no evidence, evidence I should have insisted on before believing.
Frequently, we encounter people on RF who claim to have a better way of life to offer others. How do you suppose one ought to judge such claims?
I look at the source. Does this person seem to be benefiting from this belief system in a way that I could use? Does he seem more centered, happier, smarter - anything others might want as well? I don't see it.
What do you think that you have to offer somebody who is as happy or happier than you are without it? Why are you assuming that he would be happier if he were like you, or that you wouldn't be better off following his path? You're trying to sell something to people who see no value in your advice, and you make no effort to tell them why they should. You just tell them that they are ignorant and closed-minded, implying that you are not, and that there is so much more if one follows your path.
You've implied repeatedly that unbelievers are closing the door on something that you seem to think that they would value if they opened that door, but never say what that would be. Isn't that an element of every commercial - why you should but this Big Mac, or why you should choose this law firm or insurance company over others? They always tell you how you'll benefit even if they are being disingenuous and exaggerating or lying. You'll have greater confidence with a Gleam smile, or this X-Box will provide you with hours of entertainment - always some reason why you should want what they're selling.
But you've never gotten around to that. You are also pitching something, but have never gotten around to explaining why you think others would want it.
Instead, you offer them taunts for not engaging in faith-based thinking with you.
I'm pretty sure that I could make your life better with my life advice to you if you would accept it, but I know that you aren't interested, I don't give unsolicited advice, and I'm not trying to spread my philosophy. It's been my map for navigating my landscape for quite a while now, and it's gotten me to my desired destination. The goal was always to live a life that I could be proud of, which would be a source of lasting satisfaction. The trick is to avoid shame and regret, to be loved and respected, to be free of fear and anxiety, to be free of excess desire, to feel centered and on the right path, and the like.
I think I've done that. Have you? If not, why are you giving others that you don't know unsolicited advice?