False, as God is a "Boss", Jesus is a "Boss" to Christians, and the apostles were "Bosses" to the Christian community.
You misunderstand....there were no human "bosses" in Christianity....certainly none with the same authority as the High Priests in Judaism. There were "overseers" to keep God's 'family' spiritually and morally "clean" and to judge those inside the congregations.
God and Jesus are the only ones who have absolute authority over us. Were their teachings enforceable? Yes they were, but the authority bestowed on their appointed shepherds was backed up by holy spirit.
In Judaism, God's laws were physically enforceable, but in Christianity, the worst that could happen is that you were shown the door and the congregation was not to fellowship with you.
But Jesus the man was never authoritarian in that he never brought punishment on anyone who went against his teachings. He offered his teachings to all and accepted those who were dedicated to the doing of God's will in their lives. Their choice.
At no point in time with Jesus' ministry did he ever say or suggest that Christianity was a "do your own thing" type of relationship. Jesus "taught with authority", so I do think it's very clear that he was "Boss" over this community, and that it was God, the ultimate "Boss", that he took direction from. Since the NT did not exist at first, it was these "Bosses" that people were guided by, and that same exact paradigm was followed by the church as it went through decade after decade and century after century.
Where did I ever suggest "that Christianity was a do your own thing type of relationship?" No Christian was free to do their own thing or to reinterpret Christ's teachings to suit themselves....but neither were they free to ignore Christ's teachings or to pick and choose what they would do, as opposed to what they felt free to ignore.
"If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your homes or say a greeting to him. 11 For the one who says a greeting to him is a sharer in his wicked works." (2 John 10-11)
Those who have authority in the congregation do so as overseers or shepherds, not as heavy handed 'police'. If there is unrepentant sin in the congregation, it will be addressed as fairly as is humanly possible and appropriate measures taken to ensure that there are no "unclean" influences in the congregation...on the basis that "a little leaven ferments the whole lump".
The apostle Paul wrote.....
"In my letter I wrote you to stop keeping company with sexually immoral people, 10 not meaning entirely with the sexually immoral people of this world or the greedy people or extortioners or idolaters. Otherwise, you would actually have to get out of the world. 11 But now I am writing you to stop keeping company with anyone called a brother who is sexually immoral or a greedy person or an idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner, not even eating with such a man. 12 For what do I have to do with judging those outside? Do you not judge those inside, 13 while God judges those outside? “Remove the wicked person from among yourselves.”
You will notice that judging those "inside" the congregations was part of the role of appointed shepherds. They had the power to 'excommunicate' any member who was found in breach of Christ's teachings and who refused to repent.
And there also is "oversight" in a democratic country to try and check corruption. And can be corruption in a religious community as well, btw-- just ask my one set of former JW neighbors that left.
What corruption can you check if you yourself are corrupted? How does a corrupt system ruled by the devil ever police itself? Democracy is not Theocracy (Though some people seem to think that they are one and the same)
Corruption can also be seen in those who find fault with the way things are done, or in what is taught, and they sometimes proudly rebel when there is an attempt to correct them. Those who leave are free to do so......but we are also free to have nothing more to do with them, especially if they are publicly slandering the whole brotherhood because they were disciplined over some issue and have their noses out of joint. I don't know the issue over which your neighbors chose to leave, but if they are bad mouthing our brotherhood over something that happened to them personally, it is not necessarily a reflection on the whole organization. How does your country treat political defectors? They are guilty of treason are they not? Why should we feel any different about spiritual defectors? Their issues are their issues, and they would most likely have been handled the same way in any congregation. Those who feel as if an injustice has been done, humbly commit it to God and allow him to handle it (confident that he will rectify things in his own due time.) They don't walk off in a huff and then isolate themselves from everyone they used to call a "brother". That is an act of pride, not humility.