How can you believe in Einstein's Theory of Relativity when it contradicts basic common sense, and fundamental laws of Physics?
For instance the speed of light is a constant, so how can photons experience no time or distance? How can something just happen and yet supposedly happen at a different time for someone else? How can two twins ages change just because of travel? To me these are ridiculous ideas.
There are two theories of relativity; General Relativity; GR and Special Relativity; SR. The first; GR is about gravity and the curving of space-time. The second; SR is about objects in motion; velocity, close to the speed of light.
GR is mass and mass geometry dependent. Mass causes gravity, and gravity which is the summation of the mass/gravity particles, not only compacts matter/mass, denser and denser, but it also compacts space and time. This is because space-time also comes from mass, and as we compact mass, we also compact space-time changing its properties.
If we had a universe with just energy, energy will not self compact to form stable space-time. It is more like a gas that wants to expand and fill in space. You need mass; solid, and gravity to get compaction via gravity. But once mass compacts and space-time compacts to a limit, energy will start to compact, following the curvature of space-time; black hole. Mass and space-time go together. The mass of the sun creates its own profile/zone of space-time that it carries around as it moves through the galaxy. Space-time is not the same everywhere but is dependent on the amount of mass/geometry/density.
SR is similar but in this case the main variable is not mass density and geometry but velocity or constant motion. Mass, that has constant motion or velocity contains kinetic energy which is modeled by the equation 1/2MV2, where M is the mass of the objective and V is velocity, with velocity squared (times itself).
Einstein has another famous equation that is E=MC2. Notice the similarity between E=MC2 and the kinetic energy equation; 1/2MV2, with both having a mass and a velocity squared. E=MC2 is about how mass and energy are related. If you could convert mass to energy or energy to mass that equation tells you how much of each, you will need, to get the other. When they developed nuclear weapons they could tell by the calculated mass change how much energy yield you could get. This is needed for fusion; mass burn.
The way special relativity; SR, works is at high enough velocity, close to the speed of light, there is a type of conversion of kinetic energy to what is called relativistic mass. However, the relativistic mass is only half mass; E=1/2MV2 compared to the E=MC2 equation. It is not exactly the rest mass of GR, that follows the E=MC2 equation, but it is nevertheless a type of semi-mass; relativistic mass, that can bend space and time, similar to rest mass, but it only impacts the moving object.
Gravity can impact distant objects, like the sun and earth, but relativistic mass only impacts the moving object. Your moving reference will can get a local space-time compaction effect, where you may not appear to age very fast, since space-time sort of slows, relative to stationary objects, who lack this extra relativistic mass and are not impacted by it. They age according to the rest mass of the earth.