I cannot convince you as your situation differs from mine. From your viewpoint you might not see God’s love. From my viewpoint I’m surrounded by it. There are physical manifestations of his love such as sustenance. Wheat, rice, vegetables and fruits with which we nourish ourselves. Then there is the ability to reflect, contemplate, meditate and discover leading us to be able to understand the universe. We can fall in love with another human being. Sciences and inventions. And above all He sends us an Educator from time to time to try and help us with our problems if we choose to listen. I have ’tried’ to listen and so has my dear wife so we have a beautiful life because the counsels of Baha’u’llah are given to us out of love for our benefit and we feel that love each moment, each day. We have beautiful Christian friends who, because of their love for God treat us as family. And then there is a wonderful Hindu lady who loves Krishna and drops in to chant bhajans. There is so much more.Convince me that God is loving without referring to scriptures that say that.
Tell me why I should believe that God is loving.
I cannot believe God is loving since it makes no sense to me that there would be so much suffering in the world if God was loving. I am referring to suffering that cannot be tied any free will decision of the person who suffers.
I do not want to hear any religious apologetics about how suffering is for our own good. We all know that there is a lot of gratuitous suffering in the world, suffering that serves no purpose.
A person who loves someone does things to show that they love that person, and they make sacrifices for the other person. If a man tells me he loves me but does nothing to show it, why would I believe him?
What does God do to show He loves us? What sacrifices does God make?
I see no evidence that God is loving, so I have to write that off as a faith-based belief.
P.S. Whether we should love God or not is another discussion. In principle, I think we should love God and other people without expectation of getting anything in return. I do not need God’s love in order to love God. I do not need love from anyone in order to love that person because I consider that selfish.
Christians and Baha’s believe that God is loving, and I think there is a reason for that, other than what their scriptures say. Imo, they have to believe God is loving because they need to feel loved by God in order to love God. I have no idea why since I do not need God’s love in order to love God. The reason I want to know if God is loving is because I am tired of religious people saying that God is loving with nothing but scriptures to back that up.
But we are only visitors to this world. One day we will move on to another existence so no suffering here is permanent.