My wife's priest had to submit a Petition for Difference of Cult to the bishop to get permission for unbaptised heathen me to be married in a Catholic church. The wording stuck with me - it certainly seemed like the Church was applying it to both me AND my wife.I have never heard the word "cult" used, except in a pejorative or a derogatory sense. Rather than being a useful descriptor, it has devolved into being a mere epithet. I use the word infrequently at best, and I almost always reserve it's use to describe organizations that I have been a part of.