exit_and_how
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in response to some of the fad religions that seem to capture so many, i wanted to begin a thread about cults. i compiled a list of cult charateristics and would welcome discussion and addition of it (also, not all the items apply to all cults). here it is:
cults may pressure a person to do things that the person didnt really want to do.
cults may sexually harrass individuals within the group - for example, saying that a person has to sleep with the leader or trying to get him/her to do some practice that they do not feel comfortable with. in exreme cases, cults use rape. some cults do things outside of a countrys borders where laws about these practices are nonexistent or not enforced.
cults prey on vulnerable people - people who lack social networks, friends - people who desperately need a group for support. in fact, the cult group may provide some love, but it does more harm than good, i.e. has costs - monetary, social, physical, spiritual, mental that all end up hurting.
cults may brainwash a person by surrounding the person with a limited ideology (and prohibiting access to other points of view or requiring that those be put into the context of the cults doctrine). this cult ideology might contain some truth but would contain half-truths, half-baked ideas, weird notions, superstitions, falicies, etc. it some cases, limited ideas about race are included.
cults often require absolute devotion to one leader (who cannot really be questioned and is never wrong).
cults may be charging a person for services. this may end up devastating a person financially where these services are exorbitantly priced. the effects of those services may be enticing but end up being temporary.
cults may use threatening measures to ensure compliance, such as whispering campaigns, slandering ones reputation, blacklisting, etc... often cults masquerading as a religion use information gained in confession as a manipulation technique (blackmail).
cults may monitor members (even after escaping). this would obviously be physically following a person around. it is usually not very hard to find out where a person lives, where they work, who they talk to, and who are their enemies and friends. but monitoring also includes mental/spiritual monitoring. in these ways, privacy is compromised (for possibly years). in extreme cases, the cults may attack the friends and/or relationships of the victim and help the enemies of the victim (even if they have no association with the cult).
cults may separate a person from their family and friends. this may be physical or mental/spiritual. it may be forced upon a member or it may be a requirement to remain a member, be in good standing within the group, etc... sometimes whole families get trapped in a cult - and the relationships in a family are often used as leverage, e.g. something bad will happen to so-and-so if the person does not do as commanded; or if the person leaves, something bad will happen to the other family members; or if the person does not do as told, he/she will be outcast from the family.
cults use PSYOPS techniques. PSYOPS is a term used in the military that means psychological operations. this includes methods of mind control - hypnotic suggestions, putting ideas into a persons mind, preventing a person from thinking for him/herself, etc... it may include weakening a person so that their psych is more pliable, such as depriving the person of sleep, food, etc... PSYOPS also include sending nightmares to deviant members or people perceived to be a threat to the organization.
cults may drug individuals - this could be used in combination wth PSYOPS techniques.
cults generally do not let members leave - going to extremes to prevent that person from doing so... this includes detaining a person physically but also includes using any PSYOPS or manipulative techniques (threatening someone or convincing them that something bad will happen if they leave).
cults may use destructive measures against members who manage to escape (as another form of control over people still inside) - such as blacklisting, purposeful damage to family members of the escapee, etc. - and then suggesting something like this would happen if a person even thinks of leaving.
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It is also important to realize that none of the above may be offically sanctioned by the cult literature, but may be unoffically used by cult leaders for various purposes, such as in order to help the cult expand, to gain personal status within the organization, to meet production quotas, or it may simpy be done to new members by older members because thats what happened to them when they joined. If a person goes to higher levels to report the abuse / negative practices, they might be ignored or even punished for stirring things up. Thus, even traditional religions where implementations have become corrupt can be considered cults.
what can you do if you find yourself in a cult?
-- leave
-- report the incident(s)
-- talk to someone you can trust about it
-- join a cult education network
-- read literature about cults in general or the specific group
-- befriend others who have left
-- become a member of a good group (look at how many religions there are)
-- start your own discussion group
cults may pressure a person to do things that the person didnt really want to do.
cults may sexually harrass individuals within the group - for example, saying that a person has to sleep with the leader or trying to get him/her to do some practice that they do not feel comfortable with. in exreme cases, cults use rape. some cults do things outside of a countrys borders where laws about these practices are nonexistent or not enforced.
cults prey on vulnerable people - people who lack social networks, friends - people who desperately need a group for support. in fact, the cult group may provide some love, but it does more harm than good, i.e. has costs - monetary, social, physical, spiritual, mental that all end up hurting.
cults may brainwash a person by surrounding the person with a limited ideology (and prohibiting access to other points of view or requiring that those be put into the context of the cults doctrine). this cult ideology might contain some truth but would contain half-truths, half-baked ideas, weird notions, superstitions, falicies, etc. it some cases, limited ideas about race are included.
cults often require absolute devotion to one leader (who cannot really be questioned and is never wrong).
cults may be charging a person for services. this may end up devastating a person financially where these services are exorbitantly priced. the effects of those services may be enticing but end up being temporary.
cults may use threatening measures to ensure compliance, such as whispering campaigns, slandering ones reputation, blacklisting, etc... often cults masquerading as a religion use information gained in confession as a manipulation technique (blackmail).
cults may monitor members (even after escaping). this would obviously be physically following a person around. it is usually not very hard to find out where a person lives, where they work, who they talk to, and who are their enemies and friends. but monitoring also includes mental/spiritual monitoring. in these ways, privacy is compromised (for possibly years). in extreme cases, the cults may attack the friends and/or relationships of the victim and help the enemies of the victim (even if they have no association with the cult).
cults may separate a person from their family and friends. this may be physical or mental/spiritual. it may be forced upon a member or it may be a requirement to remain a member, be in good standing within the group, etc... sometimes whole families get trapped in a cult - and the relationships in a family are often used as leverage, e.g. something bad will happen to so-and-so if the person does not do as commanded; or if the person leaves, something bad will happen to the other family members; or if the person does not do as told, he/she will be outcast from the family.
cults use PSYOPS techniques. PSYOPS is a term used in the military that means psychological operations. this includes methods of mind control - hypnotic suggestions, putting ideas into a persons mind, preventing a person from thinking for him/herself, etc... it may include weakening a person so that their psych is more pliable, such as depriving the person of sleep, food, etc... PSYOPS also include sending nightmares to deviant members or people perceived to be a threat to the organization.
cults may drug individuals - this could be used in combination wth PSYOPS techniques.
cults generally do not let members leave - going to extremes to prevent that person from doing so... this includes detaining a person physically but also includes using any PSYOPS or manipulative techniques (threatening someone or convincing them that something bad will happen if they leave).
cults may use destructive measures against members who manage to escape (as another form of control over people still inside) - such as blacklisting, purposeful damage to family members of the escapee, etc. - and then suggesting something like this would happen if a person even thinks of leaving.
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It is also important to realize that none of the above may be offically sanctioned by the cult literature, but may be unoffically used by cult leaders for various purposes, such as in order to help the cult expand, to gain personal status within the organization, to meet production quotas, or it may simpy be done to new members by older members because thats what happened to them when they joined. If a person goes to higher levels to report the abuse / negative practices, they might be ignored or even punished for stirring things up. Thus, even traditional religions where implementations have become corrupt can be considered cults.
what can you do if you find yourself in a cult?
-- leave
-- report the incident(s)
-- talk to someone you can trust about it
-- join a cult education network
-- read literature about cults in general or the specific group
-- befriend others who have left
-- become a member of a good group (look at how many religions there are)
-- start your own discussion group