mikkel_the_dane
My own religion
I await the time people stop being tiresome.
Well, since you are a scientist, you should know this:
In short there appears to be no objective morality, regardless of religion or non-religion.
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I await the time people stop being tiresome.
So now you know better than the people writing the OED and Mirriam-Webster?i dismiss bad definitions and look for logical, useful ones. If a dictionary provides a circular definition, I'd say that lends credence to my claim that the word is ill-defined.
Uhm. I sorta have to let certain people know I'm transgender. In advance. For my own safety. Being a nearly impossible to spot trans woman can be dangerous in certain social settings. If a man approaches me, to buy me a drink (that's fine - I almost never turn down free food or drink) he should know pretty much right away. If we have a couple drinks and then I plop that info later it could be considered dishonest at best and "*probable cause" for a violent outburst at worst.Maybe it's because I'm old, but I don;t see how any of this matters, much. Perhaps when one has been dating someone for a bit, or among their closer friends, this kind of information would be important to share. But I don't see why anyone thinks anyone else should know, or care.
"Hey, I'm a _______! And you need to respect this!"
Huh?
Why not just refuse drinks from strangers? Seems like a good policy in a bar, anyway.Uhm. I sorta have to let certain people know I'm transgender. In advance. For my own safety. Being a nearly impossible to spot trans woman can be dangerous in certain social settings. If a man approaches me, to buy me a drink (that's fine - I almost never turn down free food or drink) he should know pretty much right away. If we have a couple drinks and then I plop that info later it could be considered dishonest at best and "*probable cause" for a violent outburst at worst.
Its free!Why not just refuse drinks from strangers? Seems like a good policy in a bar, anyway.
Nothing is ever really free. Which is why the fear of reprisal.Its free!
That's possible. Unless he's really really nice and yanno? Free stuff!Why not just refuse drinks from strangers? Seems like a good policy in a bar, anyway.
I've had free drinks.Nothing is ever really free. Which is why the fear of reprisal.
Yes, but it's a brave new world, now. Where everyone is always right even when they're not. And alcohol doesn't tend to bring out the best in people.I've had free drinks.
I mean, I said 'thank you', and in some cases, a polite conversation was had, but I didn't really find that to be uncalled for...
I've bought some drinks for others, too, and I never expected anything more than a thank you.
This hasn't been my experience.Yes, but it's a brave new world, now. Where everyone is always right even when they're not. And alcohol doesn't tend to bring out the best in people.
In some people shyness is muffled, for example. In others rage inhibition. It depends on the person as you noted.This hasn't been my experience.
Well, the bit about alcohol, perhaps. Though I don't assume it'll bring out the worst, either.
I drank heavily for a period in my 20s. But, it only brought out the ability to function... My anxiety was so bad back then, and meds didn't really do much good other than cause a mess of side effects. I was a completely boring drunk, though... no one would guess I'd had a drink(or three).In some people shyness is muffled, for example. In others rage inhibition. It depends on the person as you noted.
When I was in school, it brought out partying and drunk joking "He's no fun --- he fell right over" as well as bowing down to the porcelain throne.
I totally believe you and get what you're saying.I drank heavily for a period in my 20s. But, it only brought out the ability to function... My anxiety was so bad back then, and meds didn't really do much good other than cause a mess of side effects. I was a completely boring drunk, though... no one would guess I'd had a drink(or three).
My therapist told me not to worry about it... I was self medicating, and I'd stop when conditions improved. Being as I did not engage in any risky behavior while drunk, it was not a concern. She was right. I lost interest as conditions improved.
And now that your life is chaos central on the outside somehow you manage to maintain from all appearances.I drank heavily for a period in my 20s. But, it only brought out the ability to function... My anxiety was so bad back then, and meds didn't really do much good other than cause a mess of side effects. I was a completely boring drunk, though... no one would guess I'd had a drink(or three).
My therapist told me not to worry about it... I was self medicating, and I'd stop when conditions improved. Being as I did not engage in any risky behavior while drunk, it was not a concern. She was right. I lost interest as conditions improved.
Its just booze, not miracle in a bottle/can. I used to have issues with compulsive eating as well, but something just sunk in one day that that wasn't making me happy, either, and that went away, too.And now that your life is chaos central on the outside somehow you manage to maintain from all appearances.
I would not be surprised. Anyone who is working off several lifetimes of past Sturm und Drang in one lifetime has the right to appear unbalanced.Its just booze, not miracle in a bottle/can. I used to have issues with compulsive eating as well, but something just sunk in one day that that wasn't making me happy, either, and that went away, too.
I appear crazier in person.
That has always been true.Yes, but it's a brave new world, now. Where everyone is always right even when they're not.
And lots of people are fine with it.And alcohol doesn't tend to bring out the best in people.