iam1me
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You know as well as I do that, when dealing with theological issues, we often must go beyond “textbook definitions,” because we’re dealing with holistic human parameters that include imagination and emotion. Your insistence is like the religious authorities who wanted Jesus to do the same (is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath?).
You are WAY off base here. Discussing a theological issue doesn't mean you throw out your dictionary and make things up as they feel right to you. And your understanding of Jesus' response to the Pharisees is questionable at best. Jesus was speaking of the Spirit of the Law vs the Letter of the Law. Not of making things up as they please you.
If the scriptures spent time defining, directly or indirectly, a biblical definition of suicide, then you might be justified in appealing to that definition vs using a modern dictionary. You might also look at the writings of relevant Church Fathers who spoke against it to see if the specially qualified their discussion of the matter in anyway. However, as it stands you lack and justification for deviating from the common definition of the term. And, even if you had such justification, you have yet to provide the "religious" definition to which you allude.
Here is a link you might find helpful: What is SUICIDE? definition of SUICIDE (Black's Law Dictionary)
This provides a well-founded legal definition. Here is another: suicide
Finding a legal connotation of a term is not the same thing as demonstrating that the term is in general a legal term. The common usage of the term, to which I clearly refer in the OP, has nothing to do with a legal definition.
On the other hand, note how the primary connotation for murder is legal in nature even in a non-legal dictionary:
Definition of murder | Dictionary.com
noun
1 Law. the killing of another human being under conditions specifically covered in law. In the U.S., special statutory definitions include murder committed with malice aforethought, characterized by deliberation or premeditation or occurring during the commission of another serious crime, as robbery or arson (first-degree murder, ormurder one), and murder by intent but without deliberation or premeditation (second-degree murder, ormurder two).
2 Slang. something extremely difficult or perilous: That final exam was murder!
3 a group or flock of crows.
verb (used with object)
1 Law. to kill by an act constituting murder.
2 to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarously.
verb (used without object)
1 to commit murder.
Suicide is a selfish act (not included in the definition, because definitions generally don’t deal in emotional judgments, as religious implications must do). Because, spiritually, one’s life is not one’s own. One’s life belongs to God. When one commits (note the operative legal term “commit”) suicide, one steals one’s life from God. Since it is the spiritual nature of human beings to be “pack animals” (per God’s assertion in Genesis that it is not good for us to be alone) — we form emotional relationships and attachments that have a direct bearing upon our well-being and that of others. Since, in suicide, one is thinking of oneself and one’s own emotional well-being, or dealing with shame or guilt in an unhealthy or unrealistic way (i.e. “they’d be better off without me), to take one’s life causes emotional harm to those to whom the perpetrator (note the legal term “perpetrator”) is close. That constitutes a selfish act.
As you correctly note, your assertion that suicide is selfish isn't part of the definition but is instead your own personal emotional judgement. That is not an objective basis for evaluating theological issues, or basically anything else.
Suicide is in no way a “heroic” act. it is generally considered to be a highly cowardly act — as a way “out” of having to deal with unpleasant emotional strain. Unless you’re prepared to call Jesus a “coward,” or unless you can show that Jesus just didn’t want to deal with unpleasant emotional strain, or unless you can show that Jesus was mentally unhealthy, or are prepared to make that judgment call, Jesus did not commit suicide by allowing himself to be taken.
That highly depends upon the context. A soldier jumping on a grenade is suicide. If he did it for the purpose of saving others, that would be considered heroic. The definition of suicide is not mutually exclusive to heroism, altruism, etc.
Remember that the Gospels are all written from a position of hindsight, meaning that Jesus “willingly going” may or may not have been the actual case.
Ah, yes, the scriptures conflict with you so better toss 'em out -right? You need to go learn to be objective rather than rely upon what feels good to you