I believe I understand things the way context dictates. The context is that of what living people would do. So the "dead" that are burying their dead are dead spiritually not physically. What kind of context do you use to negate the statement by Jesus that He is flesh and bone?
To me the reality of Jesus is His Spirit. The Bible says God is Spirit and to be worshipped in the spirit. So the body is of no importance in the Bible where worshipping God is concerned.
John 4:24
God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth."
We believe that Jesus came in the flesh but today He is with us only in the Spirit.
Jesus was born of the Holy Spirit. His Spirit they could not kill which is what the Jews wanted to kill so that this movement would be discouraged and stopped but they could not kill His Spirit so the movement of Jesus enveloped the earth.
Where is Jesus now? Is He alive or dead? I say He lives on in the hearts and minds of His lovers. Because we cannot see Jesus body walking around now does that mean He is not with us or we cease to believe in Him?
Just like proof of the presence of Jesus body is not a requirement to believe in Jesus today it was not a requirement then. What the disciples saw was the reality of Who Jesus really was.
I worship the light not the lamp. Some unfortunately have woven myths and superstitions around His body and developed a form of cult worship based on worship of His Body. But although His body is nowhere to be seen today yet I see Him alive in my heart and soul and for me I do not require to see His body in order to believe. That is a need for people I believe who weak in faith.