Cordoba
Well-Known Member
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Who Has Your Trust?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Who do you trust?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Who is that one person that gives you an internal tranquility, no matter what you entrust them with?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For some of us it might be our mother or father, perhaps a best friend or our spouse. That trust gives us confidence, conviction and peace.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In reality though, we do not trust them in a fully comprehensive sense. We might trust them to be there for us, or trust them not to judge us harshly when we make a mistake. But would we trust our best friend to be our lawyer in court if she is a fashion designer and is not particularly eloquent?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]So our trust is in regards to certain things. What elements would have to be there in order for someone to have our trust 100%?
[/FONT] [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]There are three main elements:[/FONT]
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Who has your trust?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Who do you trust?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Who is that one person that gives you an internal tranquility, no matter what you entrust them with?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For some of us it might be our mother or father, perhaps a best friend or our spouse. That trust gives us confidence, conviction and peace.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In reality though, we do not trust them in a fully comprehensive sense. We might trust them to be there for us, or trust them not to judge us harshly when we make a mistake. But would we trust our best friend to be our lawyer in court if she is a fashion designer and is not particularly eloquent?
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]So our trust is in regards to certain things. What elements would have to be there in order for someone to have our trust 100%?
[/FONT] [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]There are three main elements:[/FONT]
- [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The person is an expert in what they do: you might not trust your fashion designer best friend to be your lawyer, but you would trust the Harvard-educated lawyer who is known never to have lost a case (lets call him Adam).[/FONT]
- [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The person is a moral person: Even if Adam is an amazing lawyer, if you werent sure about his moral character, you still wouldnt be completely at ease. You might be afraid that he would cheat you out of your money for example. But if Adam is also an amazingly upright human being, you would be happier to give him a power-of-attorney.[/FONT]
- [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The person cares about you specifically: now imagine if Adam happens to be your close uncle who always treated you as his own child. Doesnt that increase the trust, confidence and certainty? You absolutely know that Uncle Adam will you get you through it all.[/FONT]
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Who has your trust?