In reality you have defined your own way of life in your own dimension.
Indeed I have. There is no objective morality, although of course some people believe there is.
We all define our own way of life, within the boundaries of reality.
"I strive to treat others as I would be treated". I would not want to be treated the way "you" want to be treated. That is one sided and cruel. There are people who have weird kinds of fetishes.
Yeah. So I am not claiming that my morals are gonna fix psychopaths. Neither do yours, incidentally, but the difference is I'm not kidding myself about that, I suspect. I'm also not claiming I have the universal moral code. Plenty of others who do that, but I'm just working on me, and teaching my children.
Simple response is that I'm not one-sided and cruel. I'm sincere, polite and altogether normal. I like long walks on the beach, honesty, and strive to deserve the trust my loved ones place in me. So treating others as I like to be treated is not at all cruel, no matter how you want to twist my words.
In regards to the laws of the land, this can change anytime. So if anarchy was the law of the land would you uphold your ideals to that standard?
You're all over the place.
If the laws of the land are anarchy, then by definition there ARE no laws of the land. Therefore I would have no trouble keeping to them. You are incorrectly conflating that with meaning that my moral boundaries END at the laws of the land, which I never said. If I go to a country, I will keep to the laws, as they have been determined by society, APART from those which are manifestly unjust.
The laws of the land have little to do with my morality, but they are indicators of action. I live in Australia. We have rules against theft (I don't steal), murder (I don't murder) and doing more than 50 k/ph on the road outside my house. If all laws were dissolved, I still wouldn't murder, I still wouldn't steal, but hey...perhaps I'd drive at 60k/ph on the road outside my house.
Another issue is the idea of fornication. People hold high in morals regarding marriage. Nowadays society has started accepting the idea of sex outside of marriage does it mean that this is the best way to go?
So what? Your argument is that atheists are immoral. If you must pry on my sex life (why does it always come down to sex with monotheists?) then fine. I've had sex with one woman in my entire life who happens to be the woman I am married to, and we've had 2 kids. I've never cheated on her, and plan to be faithful and monogamous my whole life. I don't judge people by the same tenets as you do, and I'm not offering up my decisions as a measure of moral worth. I am merely suggesting that I have the 'moral strength' to live my life the way I think is right, regardless of what you might call temptation.
In addition, your 3 "rules" you have written is it based on your own premise and bias or is it documented.
Sure it's documented. I just wrote it down. Your argument, I suppose, is that your morals are objective, and laid down by God. I've had good debates with theists about that in the past, and am happy to again, but you'll have to actually justify which morals you want to run with for that to lead anywhere. Right now you're comparing what I stated to a clear God-given code, and I'm not sure which amongst the various clear God-given codes you're talking about.
And my "rules" aren't "rules". I simply stated what I try to do. I'm not perfect.