I have heard part of that story but not all of it. I never heard about the motel and you having trouble having sex. Hey, we might as well entertain the RF folks since it looks like it is just going to be us Baha'is on this thread.
Did I ever tell you about the first night of our honeymoon in a small town east of San Diego? It was this very quaint motel I had selected just for the occasion and I was so excited, but he did not know what to do or how to do it. Why did I just assume he would know, because he was a man? As you know, we only knew each other for three weeks before we got married and we were both virgins, me 32, he 42. On top of everything, and maybe contributing to the problem, he got an abscessed tooth the wedding day and it was not pulled out till later, so he was in excruciating pain on the wedding night.
After the first night it only went from bad to worse because I was so angry at him. 32 years I had waited for this? So up the coast of California and Oregon we drove, stopping at motels along the way, and still nothing. I can remember calling my brother from a phone booth at the motel and him telling me I should have the marriage annulled. We finally ended up in Washington where my mother and brother lived and I was still mad about the no sex. Honestly, I cannot remember when or where we finally consummated the marriage, it is all a fog now, but I do remember driving back down to California where I lived and where we were going to live together and seeing a sex therapist for a while