As I see it, you can one of three absurd propositions for the existence of the universe:
I think it's kind of funny how you think you can know what is and isn't absurd in advance, especially concerning something like the origins of the universe, which wil
extremely likely be so out-of-touch with the reality we commonly experience that it will completely baffle us and defy all reason and common sense. Just like when we discovered relativity or quantum mechanics.
Before Einstein, people would have called it "absurd" as well that the flow of time is dependend on speed and/or gravity relative to a third party observer.
Before quantum mechanics, people would have called all the weird things particles do even more absurd as well.
The lesson here, is that you don't know what is and isn't sensible or absurd in advance.
Especially not concerning phenomena like the very origins of the universe, which is necessarily so bizar that it literally makes our math break down at this point in time.
No, I wouldn't count on the actual origins of the universe making much "sense" to our minds that evolved to avoid being eaten by dangerous predators in Africa.
1 - it was created from someone/something outside of the physical world
That assumes that the physical world = the universe and that it doesn't include whatever else might exist "outside" or "beyond" the universe.
Next, a "someone"
is a "something", so I don't see any need to make explicit mention of it. Smells like just an attempt to smuggle your god of choice in.
So, allow me to rephrase:
"
it was created from something outside of the universe".
That already is a much better statement.
2 - it created itself, forming time, energy, space, matter and the law of physics as it progressed
3 - it has been here forever
other options are open for consideration. Such options need to address the "why" of why we
are here.
"why" is a loaded question.
What makes you think that "why" is a valid question?
Or do you really mean "how"?
In any case, the point is that we don't know how the universe originated, if it even originated. We simply don't know. It's unknown. Whatever it was, it's bound to be something so strange that most of us won't be able to wrap our minds around it - just like it is the case with quantum mechanics.
The point here, is that this really isn't the type of unknown where we can rule out / in certain options based on no more then "common sense" or what "sounds appealing" or "what sounds absurd".
The origins of space-time, is literally the kind of problem that when solve, will literally defy our common sense in every possible way - even much more then relativity or quantum mechanics did.