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Do trans-activists allow for trans-moderates?

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
It appears that you don't recognize the ambiguity
of your own post, & are unable to clarify them.
So you blame others for your own failure.

1 - what exactly did you find ambiguous?
2 - I'm not blaming anyone, I just don't want to educate you.
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
I don't know if "trans-moderate" is an accepted term or not?

But I'll take a whack at what it means to me.

A "trans-moderate":

- is empathetic towards people who have gender or body dysphoria
- supports the creation of public facilities for trans people
- supports the idea of "open" categories for competitions, sports and otherwise.
- supports ADULTS who chose to modify their bodies
- supports fair treatment for trans people

- DOES NOT agree that therapists should "affirm" anything. That's not therapy
- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be told how to identify
- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be subjected to surgeries or homones
- DOES NOT agree that trans-women are women
- DOES NOT agree that sex is a social construct
- DOES NOT agree that differences in opinion on these matters is violence
- DOES NOT agree that arbitrarily declared pronouns are harmless

@Revoltingest Yeah, you are right.
Here are those I would pick out:
- is empathetic towards people who have gender or body dysphoria.
Counter - as long as you accept that is not always a mental disorder, but rather in some case the body as for sex has a different gender brain.
- supports fair treatment for trans people.
Counter - to vague and didn't need to be there. The rest of the list should speak on its own.
- supports ADULTS who chose to modify their bodies.
- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be subjected to surgeries or hormones.
Counter - that is for the non-adults between them theirs parents and the doctors.
-DOES NOT agree that trans-women are women.
Counter - what is a woman?
- DOES NOT agree that sex is a social construct.
Counter - what is a sex and for the topic is there something a sex is not?
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
So you oppose parents insisting to their children that they're straight or cis, and allowing them to identify as they please?
Can you clarify this question? thanks.

Children are treated with surgeries and hormones all the time. If you're against all surgery for kids, youre gonna have a lot of dead kids on your hands.
It seems like you're switching contexts here?

I said:
- DOES NOT agree that differences in opinion on these matters is violence
- DOES NOT agree that arbitrarily declared pronouns are harmless

These two seem contradictory. Are pronouns you don't like just differences of opinion, which are not violence, or are they somehow harmful?

Why do you think they're contradictory?

Trans-activists often claim that to disagree with them is "violence"

A separate topic is the use of pronouns. I'm claiming that extreme pronoun demands are harmful. Harmful is not the same as violent, correct?
 

Left Coast

This Is Water
Staff member
Premium Member
Can you clarify this question? thanks.

Your original bullet said:

"DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be told how to identify."

I assume that this not-agreeing also extends to parents not telling children how they should identify, correct?

Why do you think they're contradictory?

Trans-activists often claim that to disagree with them is "violence"

A separate topic is the use of pronouns.

How is it a separate topic? Seems quite related to me.

I'm claiming that extreme pronoun demands are harmful. Harmful is not the same as violent, correct?

Violence is a kind of harm, isn't it? How can differences of opinion not be violence, but someone using a pronoun you don't like is "harm?" This seems like a semantic difference.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
- is empathetic towards people who have gender or body dysphoria.
Counter - as long as you accept that is not always a mental disorder, but rather in some case the body as for sex has a different gender brain.

Hey @mikkel_the_dane - I appreciate your good faith responses!

Am I correct that you think sometimes trans is a mental disorder, but sometimes it's not? Am I also correct that you think the body and brain are two distinct entities?

- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be subjected to surgeries or hormones.
Counter - that is for the non-adults between them theirs parents and the doctors.
What's the long term evidence that ANYONE knows how to get this right for young people?

-DOES NOT agree that trans-women are women.
Counter - what is a woman?
This is a common question these days. To me it smacks of a dangerous, post-truth worldview.

But to be more direct, a woman is an adult, human, female.

- DOES NOT agree that sex is a social construct.
Counter - what is a sex and for the topic is there something a sex is not?

Another post-truth question. But sex is taken to mean normal biological differences between males and females. And rare exceptions do not somehow undo biology.
 
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icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
Your original bullet said:

"DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be told how to identify."

I assume that this not-agreeing also extends to parents not telling children how they should identify, correct?

If I understand you, you're saying that a parent shouldn't tell a child that - for example - they're straight, or gay? If so, I would agree.

Violence is a kind of harm, isn't it? How can differences of opinion not be violence, but someone using a pronoun you don't like is "harm?" This seems like a semantic difference.

Sure, if we construct a Venn diagram, violence is a kind of harm. But wouldn't you agree that there are types of harm that are non-violent? I think the semantics are important here. It's not uncommon these days to hear folks from the far-left claim that words ARE violence. This is simply not true.
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
Hey @mikkel_the_dane - I appreciate your good faith responses!

Am I correct that you think sometimes trans is a mental disorder, but sometimes it's not? Am I also correct that you think the body and brain are two distinct entities?

What's the long term evidence that ANYONE knows how to get this right for young people?

This is a common question these days. To me it smacks of a dangerous, post-truth worldview.

Another post-truth question. But sex is taken to mean normal biological differences between males and females. And rare exceptions do not somehow undo biology.

That is all I needed to know. You don't understand that sex versus gender are different. The one is XX, XY and the other variants and the outward appearance of a body. The other is how a brain feels its sex and gender; and gender is a social construct in part.
The rest of your post can only be addressed if we can differentiate between sex and gender.
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
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Sure, if we construct a Venn diagram, violence is a kind of harm. But wouldn't you agree that there are types of harm that are non-violent? I think the semantics are important here. It's not uncommon these days to hear folks from the far-left claim that words ARE violence. This is simply not true.

Studies from social science and psychology would disagree and in some cases in Denmark words are violence and punished as such.
 

Left Coast

This Is Water
Staff member
Premium Member
If I understand you, you're saying that a parent shouldn't tell a child that - for example - they're straight, or gay? If so, I would agree.

I'm asking if you agree with that idea.

Okay gotcha, I'm glad we're in agreement that kids should have the freedom to identify as they choose and not be told they can't be this or that or must be this or that.

Sure, if we construct a Venn diagram, violence is a kind of harm. But wouldn't you agree that there are types of harm that are non-violent? I think the semantics are important here. It's not uncommon these days to hear folks from the far-left claim that words ARE violence. This is simply not true.

So words aren't violence, but they are harm? C'mon dude. What harm are pronouns you don't like doing to you?
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Sure, if we construct a Venn diagram, violence is a kind of harm. But wouldn't you agree that there are types of harm that are non-violent? I think the semantics are important here. It's not uncommon these days to hear folks from the far-left claim that words ARE violence. This is simply not true.
Pretty sure slurs (for example) fall under hate speech, legally speaking, in most countries today. Which means they usually fall under the legal category of violence by default.

Words are seen as quite powerful to many a legal system today. And indeed can fall under violence in specific instances

I’m not suggesting that pronouns are necessarily the same thing, obviously. But based on the experiences I’ve heard, using the right pronoun for someone can have a profoundly beneficial effect for them. So the opposite should be true if someone deliberately uses the wrong one, surely.
 

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
Premium Member
Most of what you wrote doesn't describe a "moderate"; it describes an ideologically charged position that denies medical consensus and expertise in favor of ideology and personal preferences. I think it's quite problematic to pass off something so potentially harmful as "moderation"—especially when anti-trans legislation is sweeping the US as we speak.

I don't know if "trans-moderate" is an accepted term or not?

But I'll take a whack at what it means to me.

A "trans-moderate":

- is empathetic towards people who have gender or body dysphoria
- supports the creation of public facilities for trans people
- supports the idea of "open" categories for competitions, sports and otherwise.
- supports ADULTS who chose to modify their bodies
- supports fair treatment for trans people

I agree with the above.

- DOES NOT agree that therapists should "affirm" anything. That's not therapy

It is therapy according to medical organizations such as the World Health Organization and American Psychological Association. Gender-affirming care is not about hastily or superficially "affirming" someone's gender identity as some claim; it includes an extensive range of interventions and therapeutic approaches.

Gender-affirming care, as defined by the World Health Organization, encompasses a range of social, psychological, behavioral, and medical interventions “designed to support and affirm an individual’s gender identity” when it conflicts with the gender they were assigned at birth. The interventions help transgender people align various aspects of their lives — emotional, interpersonal, and biological — with their gender identity. As noted by the American Psychiatric Association (APA), that identity can run anywhere along a continuum that includes man, woman, a combination of those, neither of those, and fluid.

The interventions fall along a continuum as well, from counseling to changes in social expression to medications (such as hormone therapy). For children in particular, the timing of the interventions is based on several factors, including cognitive and physical development as well as parental consent. Surgery, including to reduce a person’s Adam’s Apple, or to align their chest or genitalia with their gender identity, is rarely provided to people under 18.

“The goal is not treatment, but to listen to the child and build understanding — to create an environment of safety in which emotions, questions, and concerns can be explored,” says Rafferty, lead author of a policy statement from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) on gender-affirming care.


- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be told how to identify

See above. Also, if we take the above statement as a general rule, then parents and society shouldn't tell children and adolescents to identify as cisgendered either, yet that frequently happens. Should we also reject that?

- DOES NOT agree that children and adolescents should be subjected to surgeries or homones

See above. Medical organizations generally don't recommend surgical procedures for minors, and if a medical professional does so, that's usually done after extensive evaluation by qualified experts. A lot of bone surgeries and other procedures are also quite complicated, but they're not banned for minors because sometimes doctors determine that they're necessary. Why or how is this any different?

You're directly contradicting medical expertise based on your personal opinions. This is a dangerous slippery slope of the kind that has led to loss of life during the pandemic, among other instances.

- DOES NOT agree that trans-women are women

Then what are they? How are you defining "women" in the first place?

- DOES NOT agree that sex is a social construct

I have never seen any relevant medical or scientific authority claim that "sex is a social construct"; only that gender is. I would agree that some expressions of gender are rooted in biology, but exactly which ones and to what extent is a different question.

- DOES NOT agree that differences in opinion on these matters is violence

I have rarely ever seen someone claim that, but what I have seen and agree with is the notion that some opinions are more likely to enable violence or harm than others. So, for example, denial of the medical consensus on gender-affirming care and saying it should be categorically withheld from minors is a harmful opinion because it can enable bans on necessary and sometimes life-saving medical care.

For example:



- DOES NOT agree that arbitrarily declared pronouns are harmless

I find this to be context-dependent, but in general, it's definitely a secondary issue compared to the above ones.

I think rejection of established medical consensus is far more harmful than arbitrarily declared pronouns.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
That is all I needed to know. You don't understand that sex versus gender are different. The one is XX, XY and the other variants and the outward appearance of a body. The other is how a brain feels its sex and gender; and gender is a social construct in part.
The rest of your post can only be addressed if we can differentiate between sex and gender.

How did you come to the conclusion that I don't understand the difference between sex and gender? you're gonna have to connect those dots for me :)
Studies from social science and psychology would disagree and in some cases in Denmark words are violence and punished as such.

Okay, time for a little precision here. The long standing test for free speech is roughly "any speech that is not likely to cause imminent violence".

Do you think any of the claims I've made here are likely to cause imminent violence?
 

PureX

Veteran Member
On what basis do you claim that?
I'm just not clear on what kind of restrictions
you want imposed upon trans-adolescents.

The only group I see telling trans folk how to
identify is the anti-trans faction. Is that whom
you're addressing in that line?
The odds of various forms of coercion are extremely high.
I think @Revoltingest has a point, here. A lot of what you posted in the OP seems to be based on the fearmongering of the anti-trans faction regarding dangers that are in reality non-existent. This idea that children are being pushed or coerced to undergo chemical or physical proceedures, or even just gender swaps based on clothing and hair and so on.

Anything can have a potential for abuse when children are concerned but I fail to see any actual motive or evidence for any of this kind of supposed threat. EXCEPT for the make-believe motive of the loony-toons on the right that think all gays and trans and liberals and Biden and Hillary are part of a secret cabal of satanic criminals intent on perverting their children so they'll end up burning in hell.
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
How did you come to the conclusion that I don't understand the difference between sex and gender? you're gonna have to connect those dots for me :)


Okay, time for a little precision here. The long standing test for free speech is roughly "any speech that is not likely to cause imminent violence".

Do you think any of the claims I've made here are likely to cause imminent violence?

We are not in the USA. We are in general debate. Keep the USA of this as the only relevant place on earth, since we are not in that sub-forum.

As for gender and sex, what are they to you?
As for violence, then yes a transgender person could in Denmark be a victim of psychological violence and one or more persons could be sentenced for that.
As for you, no, you are not that dangerous for this thread.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
Okay gotcha, I'm glad we're in agreement that kids should have the freedom to identify as they choose and not be told they can't be this or that or must be this or that.
If a kid wants to "try out" gender roles, okay. But no hormones, no surgery. We don't let kids drive or drink alcohol or vote, right?

So words aren't violence, but they are harm? C'mon dude. What harm are pronouns you don't like doing to you?

Again, it seems like two separate questions. Words could cause a person to be fired or ostracized. Those are harmful, but not violent, correct?

As for pronouns, their extreme use is causing some people in society harm. Just ask Rob Hoogland.

Most of what you wrote doesn't describe a "moderate"; it describes an ideologically charged position that denies medical consensus and expertise in favor of ideology and personal preferences. I think it's quite problematic to pass off something so potentially harmful as "moderation"—especially when anti-trans legislation is sweeping the US as we speak.

I think I've answered many of your questions in other posts?

As for "anti-trans" legislation. What exactly is being legislated? I do not consider myself anti-trans, or transphobic, but I disagree with some of the more radical, post-truth claims that trans-activists are making.
 
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