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Do women enjoy sex?

Riders

Well-Known Member
Did you know that I sometimes go to the Gothic bar with John,he has aspergers , has a hard time, but I take him out to The Church Gothic bar in Dallas theres a lot of young people there and some older people in another room they have older music but I always get attention and to talk to and socialize with young people there. I have gotten a few phone numbers too.I feel very comfortable with young people.
 

lovesong

:D
Premium Member
I apologize i left out a lot of info here. In real life I have a really young voice, and I tend to come off young so people take me for being 25 instead of 49. They say its in part because of my mental illness, we just seem to stay young,Im bipolar and also I have dyslexia, sometimes learning disabilities can make you young as well. I go cray for bands I like, went and got 400 dollar ticket to see New Kids ON TheBlock meet them in back I play games a lot, second life virtual reality I love movies music , I know a lot of people are going tos at well I like those things too, but if you knew me in real life, youd get an idea of how inmature I am and how young I come off as..I enjoy being young and getting attention for it. Besides its your opinion of you, whIw atch kids flicks I feel like a kid, that's just my thinking , its true for me.
I agree with Frank here that those two just don't imply eachother. I'm extremely childish in real life, almost to a fault, and I have neither dyslexia nor bipolar disorder. My boyfriend however, is dyslexic, but is more mature and adult-ish than I will probably ever be.
 

Riders

Well-Known Member
No that is incorrect, my psychiatrist told me mental illness affect maturity .Ill get some info on the net see if theres any proof but I can tell you right now, Ive been groups and seen mentally ill people who were like 10 year olds. It maybe true for your boyfriend but not everyone. How do you explain there are so many mentally challenged people who have bipolar and other mentall illnesses who have mentality of a child? BTW theres no way to say well mental illness affects my boyfriend like this so that's how it is for everyone , doesn't work that way, it affects everyone different.
 

Madhuri

RF Goddess
Staff member
Premium Member
And why we have the libido, it's to reproduce and to reproduce, IOW we're fooled
with the libido for the next generation to come, and at the end you'll be something like this.

I'm not sure what point you are trying to make.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
I think there would have to be a strong pleasure from both parties, this is the lure that brings us together to populate, if there wasn't this pleasure we would probably not even worry about it lol.
 

Riders

Well-Known Member
I don't think its wise for folks to have sex or get married who don't like sex. It can get abusive.
 

Acim

Revelation all the time
Maybe the people who claim the opposite ought to be saying:

Women do not enjoy sex (with me)

Ha!
 

FearGod

Freedom Of Mind
I'm not sure what point you are trying to make.

My point is that we're made to enjoy sex, men and women, if we don't have the libido
then why the hell we care, we're forced by the libido to have sexual relationship and I see
it as kind of slavery, the purpose of it is to reproduce and for humans to be here after billions
of years in the space from the date of the creation and it's planned that the wise human to
appear in the final stages, so we reproduce and then we leave for the others to come in, that's
the purpose of it " the continuation of life through reproduction"
 

Neo Deist

Th.D. & D.Div. h.c.
No that is incorrect, my psychiatrist told me mental illness affect maturity .Ill get some info on the net see if theres any proof but I can tell you right now, Ive been groups and seen mentally ill people who were like 10 year olds. It maybe true for your boyfriend but not everyone. How do you explain there are so many mentally challenged people who have bipolar and other mentall illnesses who have mentality of a child? BTW theres no way to say well mental illness affects my boyfriend like this so that's how it is for everyone , doesn't work that way, it affects everyone different.

As a CSI, I have to talk to medical professionals whenever we have a victim/suspect in custody that exhibits some type of mental illness. I can assure you that Riders is correct in her statement. Mental illness can cause a diminished mental capacity, which can affect maturity, thought processes, and reasoning. It can cause mood swings, emotional outbursts, physical violence, and disorders like bipolarism. There are also those that might be autistic but are a savant when it comes to math, music, etc.
 

Neo Deist

Th.D. & D.Div. h.c.
My point is that we're made to enjoy sex, men and women, if we don't have the libido
then why the hell we care, we're forced by the libido to have sexual relationship and I see
it as kind of slavery, the purpose of it is to reproduce and for humans to be here after billions
of years in the space from the date of the creation and it's planned that the wise human to
appear in the final stages, so we reproduce and then we leave for the others to come in, that's
the purpose of it " the continuation of life through reproduction"

Yes, we are designed so that we crave sex. It is enjoyable and a driving force behind procreation for most mammals. The ultimate goal is to ensure that the various species continue, but it is also pleasurable and should not be shamed under the guise of religion. Far too often the Abrahamics treat sex and nakedness as taboo and hush-hush. The notion is ridiculous. Besides, I am not a slave to my libido...it is a slave to me in having to keep up! :D
 
When I was growing up in the 1960s, there was a widely accepted myth in my community that women did not enjoy sex just for fun, and even actively disliked it, but only consented to it in order to please the man they were in love with. This myth -- which in my early youth I believed -- caused me immense guilt because it meant that when I wanted to have sex with a woman, I was wanting to do something she'd prefer I didn't do. The guilt was crushing at times.

That could work in your favour though also...

"Finished already??? You've only just put it in!"

"Yes, I know dear. I pride myself on being a very considerate lover."
 
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