Do women enjoy sex?

[Neo Deist]

I ain't against sex, but will you enjoy sex with a whore?

I am married, so I don't need to use a whore to get my jollies.

However, with a whore you at least know it is the real deal and not some teaser that will leave you hanging...every pun intended.

 

[oldbadger]

..........................There are no whores without men, it takes two.

Some men are whores, over here they are called gigolos and rent-boys.

An acquaintance of mine was a rent-boy in London. He attracted a wealthy clientele. One of his customers was a Dutch Bank director, who liked him so much that he took him back to Holland and set him up in a second home. This rent-boy met the Banker's family eventually. He fell in love with the Banker's daughter. They eloped to England. They have three sons and a daughter, all in their late thirties now. He is a grandfather now....!

Life is so strange, and amazing, all at once.

 

[Skwim]

The libido is the driving force for sex, foods is depending on our taste.

Not talking about libido and food, but libido and hunger. Libido and hunger are the driving agencies, while sex and food are their resolution.

But the libido is made for a purpose, not just for fun.

Correct, not just for fun. Which doesn't mean it can't be a catalyst for fun. Or have you read differently?

Actually it's why we're here, have you been asked if you want to live on this planet, no choices.

I fail to see the relevance of this, but just so you know, I was never asked. And I don't believe you know that anyone was.

Not sinful, sexual desire is a natural thing and the purpose of it is reproduction and not whoredom.

Just like the desire to eat, hunger, does not preclude you from once in a while indulging yourself with a candy bar or a handful of potato chips. And it's kind of telling that you categorize non-reproductive sex as "whoredom." WOW!! This is beginning to border on the absurd.

But that doesn't mean we have to eat the foods which isn't ours, such as stealing one.

Nope. But so what?

The fact remains, just like indulging your self in nonessential foods, people often indulge themselves in non-reproductive sex. I suggest that if you're going to come down on people enjoying themselves in bed or on the kitchen table for no other reason than they like it, you'd better start coming down on everyone who eats a Snickers or a bag of Cheetos.

Which brings me to my question: Why is it you and conservative Christians/fundamentalists, pick on non-reproductive sex as your bugaboo, but not on nonessential fattening foods? My suspicion its that while sex itself is an embarrassing topic---god knows why, he invented it---eating fattening foods is not.


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[FearGod]

Not talking about libido and food, but libido and hunger. Libido and hunger are the driving agencies, while sex and food are their resolution.

If you're hungry then you should eat to survive, but if you want to have sex with a woman and
you have no one then should you rape one?

Correct, not just for fun. Which doesn't mean it can't be a catalyst for fun. Or have you read differently?

I was comparing it to enjoying music which is only for fun.

I fail to see the relevance of this, but just so you know, I was never asked. And I don't believe you know that anyone was.

That's how we're forced into this life, by the libido, all of us are here because of it, no choices.

Just like the desire to eat, hunger, does not preclude you from once in a while indulging yourself with a candy bar or a handful of potato chips. And it's kind of telling that you categorize non-reproductive sex as "whoredom." WOW!! This is beginning to border on the absurd.

I'm speaking about the purpose of it, why humans have the libido, just for fun, of course not.
It's made enjoyable for the purpose of reproduction, it's a fact.

The word whoredom isn't my invention, it's about having sex with anybody, no limits.
I didn't say that non-reproductive sex is whoredom, but to have sex with anybody just for fun or money..etc.

Nope. But so what?

The fact remains, just like indulging your self in nonessential foods, people often indulge themselves in non-reproductive sex. I suggest that if you're going to come down on people enjoying themselves in bed or on the kitchen table for no other reason than they like it, you'd better start coming down on everyone who eats a Snickers or a bag of Cheetos.

Which brings me to my question: Why is it you and conservative Christians/fundamentalists, pick on non-reproductive sex as your bugaboo, but not on nonessential fattening foods? My suspicion its that while sex itself is an embarrassing topic---god knows why, he invented it---eating fattening foods is not.

You can eat any foods you wish, but can you have sex with any woman you like except if by rape.



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[dawny0826]

I enjoy sex that is both physically and emotionally satisfying. Anything less doesn't interest me.

 

[Skwim]

If you're hungry then you should eat to survive, but if you want to have sex with a woman and
you have no one then should you rape one?

I was comparing it to enjoying music which is only for fun.

That's how we're forced into this life, by the libido, all of us are here because of it, no choices.

I'm speaking about the purpose of it, why humans have the libido, just for fun, of course not.
It's made enjoyable for the purpose of reproduction, it's a fact.

The word whoredom isn't my invention, it's about having sex with anybody, no limits.
I didn't say that non-reproductive sex is whoredom, but to have sex with anybody just for fun or money..etc.

You can eat any foods you wish, but can you have sex with any woman you like except if by rape.
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[Riders]

If you're hungry then you should eat to survive, but if you want to have sex with a woman and
you have no one then should you rape one?


I was comparing it to enjoying music which is only for fun.


That's how we're forced into this life, by the libido, all of us are here because of it, no choices.




I'm speaking about the purpose of it, why humans have the libido, just for fun, of course not.
It's made enjoyable for the purpose of reproduction, it's a fact.

The word whoredom isn't my invention, it's about having sex with anybody, no limits.
I didn't say that non-reproductive sex is whoredom, but to have sex with anybody just for fun or money..etc.



You can eat any foods you wish, but can you have sex with any woman you like except if by rape.



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And it just got worse, calling all prostituts whores, and for anyone else saying that its a lie. Plenty of teen prostitutes who have been kidnapped and forced into by men, those pimps, theyre the whores, so get that straight for anyone one here. I wasnt planning on selling myself either,.I was taken advantage of.

 

[Ingledsva]

Why we're as if slaved to sex?is it logical or we're just programmed to enjoy sex?
If we think about it in logical means then it's disgusting and a dirty thing, kissing
and swallowing your partner's saliva, and the most attractive parts are also disgusting
as it's where the poo and pee came out from.

To me that is just a strange way of thinking about sex.

You believe a God created animals and humans, right?

That God says to procreate, right?

But that God did not make us like the animals, coming into heat, and having sex, only when we are ready to conceive.

We instead are made to enjoy sex at ALL times. Think about that.

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[Riders]

Well wow you've used the whore word FearGod several times as if you've got a lot of experience on this topic. If you talk about it this much claim to know all about whore well you must be getting a personal education on whores.I wonder how you got your education on whores, must be hands on experience.

 

[Riders]

hen I first got into sex addicts anonymous after I got some sobriety I relapsed twice with conservative Evangelical Christians on the phone. One of them was reading the bible and preaching Jesus too right before he started coming onto me.

 

[Riders]

Do you know how many conservative Christian men Ive had sex with a lot.

 

[SomeRandom]

Of course women like sex. It's not like endorphins in the brain go

"oh look we're having sex, better get to work lads!."

"But sir, we're in the brain of a female."

"Oh, by George you're right. False alarm men!"


There's a story in my family tradition somewhere. A man who was quite the erm healthy man with a robust shall we say collection of children, greatly upset Indra. (Can't remember the insult.) Indra turned the man into a woman. The now woman married a man and was a dutiful wife with many children of her own.

Long story short when Indra casually asked if the woman would like to be a man again, the woman answered "No."
The woman explained that women experienced more joy when having sex than men..

To not sexually satisfy one's spouse, be they male or female, is to neglect one's spiritual duty. Or so says my family tradition at least.

 

[MountainPine]

I was told women enjoy foreplay more than the actual sex.

 

[Riders]

I do enjoy foreplay more then sex, but to me forplay is sex its all a part of sex and love even kissing and holding hands are its all a part of it.

 

[FearGod]

We instead are made to enjoy sex at ALL times. Think about that.

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True, but not like animals to F*** and to leave and search for the next.
God made humans relationship male and female as sacred,
if men can easily have sex with any woman, why the need to marry then?
I believe in the long term this way of life will lead to a disaster.

 

[FearGod]

Well wow you've used the whore word FearGod several times as if you've got a lot of experience on this topic. If you talk about it this much claim to know all about whore well you must be getting a personal education on whores.I wonder how you got your education on whores, must be hands on experience.

Do you think it's a shame to have such experience with whores?

 

[Rick O'Shez]

But I can bribe her with tasty treats!

Guinness?

 

[Aupmanyav]

There's a story in my family tradition somewhere. A man who was quite the erm healthy man with a robust shall we say collection of children, greatly upset Indra. (Can't remember the insult.) Indra turned the man into a woman. The now woman married a man and was a dutiful wife with many children of her own.

Long story short when Indra casually asked if the woman would like to be a man again, the woman answered "No."
The woman explained that women experienced more joy when having sex than men.

Yeah, that is the story - a male chauvinist story.

if men can easily have sex with any woman, why the need to marry then?

Social arrangement for benefit of kids. Now many people manage without it, but it has demographic implications. Slowing down of population increase, increasing the proportion of old persons in a society.

 

[SomeRandom]

Yeah, that is the story - a male chauvinist story.

Lol it is? Seems to be more about bolstering the sexuality of women than chauvinistic.

 

[Aupmanyav]

It says men do the hard work and women enjoy. IMHO, it is a male chauvinist story.