And how are we to determine what separates us from God?
You're entire world-view is premised on a God, a book and unquestioning obedience to your interpretation of its dictates.
I'm questioning these premises, you will not. To you the entire mythology is axiomatic. You will not question your premises, and you fall back on them as a response to any challenge. You're deaf to any questions or criticism.
Behaviors that don't respect oneself and others separate us from God.