Well, I am not going to judge Smoke's personal experience here. I like Smoke and wish he had not left.
However, I will say this - I choose not to be offended by some of the ridiculous tripe I read here some days. I mean, I COULD be offended - as a Christian, a woman, a peron whose been divorced twice, a business owner, a middle aged white person, a libertarian, a capitalist, an American and US citizen, with a very diverse military family. Oh yes, I COULD be offended nearly every day that I visit this site. And I could let it get to me and become bitter.
But I won't let that happen. I may leave the site one day, but it will be long before I've allowed anyone's comments to disrupt my peace of mind or hurt my feelings.
So far, I've been able to remain objective.