because information can't be created, or destroyed, it is simply transformed. quantum no-hiding theorem
the form is irrelvant, the information is there. change your mind about something, and you can see the matter is mutable the action isn't. thus the idea is eternal, realized it has always been and its forms are transitory.
idealism vs realism.
but an idea that doesn't come to fruition is like saying i love you without actions and a result.
MOVE
Once the form is gone, the idea is gone. The results of that idea lingers depending on the actions and idea that influenced those actions.
I have love for my mother.
I give my mother flowers on her birthday.
I pass away. That idea of love is gone. That's a fact.
Her sentiments, spirit, and feelings that she has of me will always stay. It cannot be confused with the actual love because
form and idea go hand in hand.
So, instead of mistaking love for form/me, she comes from her grieving process and accept love for what it is now. It's not part of form anymore, so it's not the same love. I wouldn't call it love because form is not there. But we call it love because it's personal.
Objectively, there is no more love. It's a lingering idea of love that no longer exists because ideas like love cannot exist without form and the other way around. Love isn't an external being. It's a comination of experiences and physiological and psychological make up of our thoughts and bodies. Without these things, when we return to the earth and water, we no longer exist.
I know my family exists with me in spirit. I cannot say that objectively because once they had passed away, that physical part of that love or spirit no longer exist. So they are alive and fact within me and all my family members. It is still form but manifested differently.
But it isn't the same because that family member no longer exists.
Form and energy changes. It's not the same. Everything is forming, changing, and moving. To say anything is external is not accepting the end of the grieving process of life. Hence why they stick on to religion.
Nothing wrong with that.