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does masterbation make you feel guilty
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Phasmid
Mr Invisible
Let me adjust what I put slightly, "Personal desire is a weakness".
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Violet.
Just wondering, what is your basis for this conclusion?
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
So if its my personal desire for instance to have a healthy body and mind..So I eat healthy..I excersize..I brush and floss...I find sources to feed my mind ....
That is a weakness in me to desire it...and a loss of control if I take action on it?
Love
Dallas
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
And also helping others can in fact be a personal desire..That you yourself derive pleasure feelings out of...
Love
Dallas
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
Phasmid
Mr Invisible
Eh? Nothing to be sorry about. Half the time I just type something for the sake of typing... not having thought things over very well.
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
SpiritualBeing
Active Member
I'm 15 years of age, so you can kind of expect what I'm going to say, lol. Seriously, I don't feel any guilt at all. I mean, so many people has said it, it's just natural.
I mean, If I thought that Christ was watching when I did it, then I'd maybe not be doing as often as I do, (every other night, lol), but I don't think he does.
In fact, he probably done it a few times in his lifetime, you know.
I don't think there should be any shame in what you do, whether you're male or female, gay, lesbian or bi-sexual.
:rainbow:
P.S. I dearly hope that everyone thats posted here is below the age of 30, as it would be mentally scarring for a 15 year old boy, you know. Lol.
I mean, If I thought that Christ was watching when I did it, then I'd maybe not be doing as often as I do, (every other night, lol), but I don't think he does.
In fact, he probably done it a few times in his lifetime, you know.
I don't think there should be any shame in what you do, whether you're male or female, gay, lesbian or bi-sexual.
:rainbow:
P.S. I dearly hope that everyone thats posted here is below the age of 30, as it would be mentally scarring for a 15 year old boy, you know. Lol.
Troublemane
Well-Known Member
Obviously theres alot of grey area between "Be fruitful and multiply"...and "refrain from sexual immorality". 
(read literally the former could be "got forth and hump like rabbits")
(read literally the former could be "got forth and hump like rabbits"
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Phasmid
Mr Invisible
(read literally the former could be "got forth and hump like rabbits"
Or it could mean become adept at maths.
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
I was never taught that...But somehow I still felt my "private area" was "taboo".Or that sex was dirty..Something to hide and be ashamed of like a dirty little secret..
Maybe because at 4 I was molested..And it felt scary...I knew that was wrong even though I didnt kow why..
Then later I had an "acute" awareness of my parts because of that..And went at myself like a crazy person starting at about 8....My mother caught me doing stuff and I got in trouble...
And then one time my brother found this dirty magazine in a parking lot ..It was as I remember like a magazine to order stuff..We of course looked at it..My mother found it in my brothers room hidden under the pillow or matress..She had a "talk" with us ...But the petrified look on her face said it all..It was like a funeral...or a death..She was very solemn..And she told us "this isnt love..thats not what people who love each other do together.."...
I know she was doing her best..But she accidentally made me feel like sex and love dont pair together..
At the same time she ran out and bought "Childrens Encyclopedia of Sex"..and it was a mixed message..
It was her "unease" with the subject that made me feel like something was wrong with it...
Now..to my horror and delight..She will tell me flat out she and my father are having hot sex all over the place!...Not only that..but when I tried complaining about my husband beign an animal that couldnt get enough one time she was like...OH JUST have SEX...Its a NATURAL body function!!!
And Im like HEY ...Why couldn't you be that loose when I was forming my ideas MAMA! (she's a weirdo)
Love
Dallas
SpiritualBeing
Active Member
I would perceive this quote meaning do not masturbate all the time, you know, don't go overboard on the old sperm factory.
I do not agree with the bible on a few things, and this is one of them. I believe that masturabtion is one of those natural things that a person does to aleviate stress and sexual frustration, (although, angry sex does both of those things just as good, lol).
And, you can't truthfully say that you've never tried a good bit of masturbation once in a while.
I personally find it a very theraputic thing to do, t's just nature taking it's course.
Nature rules, so let it be.
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SpiritualBeing
Active Member
Man, what a childhood you had. Well, I'm only a teenager, and I still expect that "talk" to take place sometime soon.
If you don't mind me asking, what age are you? I'm just wondering, because I get Sex Education in school now, and I thought that you might have got it, as you sound so young.
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DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
Good Lord sweet brother..Im 40 years old.....And have 2 children(sons) older than you..And one not far behind..
Tee hee...but thanks for saying I "sound young"...I guess young is in the heart and mind..I can easily still tap into being a child...Good and bad...
Love
Dallas
DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
Good Lord sweet brother..Im 40 years old.....And have 2 children(sons) older than you..And one not far behind..
Tee hee...but thanks for saying I "sound young"...I guess young is in the heart and mind..I can easily still tap into being a child...Good and bad...
Love
Dallas
Oh and to add..Sure we got "sex education ' in school...I had a baby at 14 to prove it!! LOL!!
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Dallas
SpiritualBeing
Active Member
Man, if only I was a bit older, lol. Are you're sons members of RF? If not, then why don't you ask them to join.
I'd love to have a chat with them, to see if they know what their mother really gets up to. (Only joking).
Man, 14, so young and so innocent. Well, at least your son grew up with a fashionista of a mum.
Here's a story for you, my mate's brother's only been going out with this girl, (and I wouldn't mind putting the razzle in her dazzle, if you know what I mean), and she's the sweetest Scottish gal you'll ever meet, and he goes and gets her pregnant.
I mean, it's only been a month, yet he's got her pregnant already. His excuse to my mate was that he knew my mate always wanted a nephew.
:rainbow:
I'd love to have a chat with them, to see if they know what their mother really gets up to. (Only joking).
Man, 14, so young and so innocent. Well, at least your son grew up with a fashionista of a mum.
Here's a story for you, my mate's brother's only been going out with this girl, (and I wouldn't mind putting the razzle in her dazzle, if you know what I mean), and she's the sweetest Scottish gal you'll ever meet, and he goes and gets her pregnant.
I mean, it's only been a month, yet he's got her pregnant already. His excuse to my mate was that he knew my mate always wanted a nephew.
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