Deathbydefault
Apistevist Asexual Atheist
Can you articulate some of the cons...perhaps I might get a better understanding of your feelings of betrayal. I am circumcised as well, and I don't have any of the ill feelings toward my parents as you do.
I don't like my parents because they are too religious, I see them as flesh conduits for their fundamentalism.
If I wasn't biologically related to them, I wouldn't even call them my parents.
Takes too long to explain, and it doesn't really pertain to our discussion.
As far as the cons go, they are fairly easy to look up, even sights that are pro circumcision will still list that it is a disease risk and whatnot.
In fact I said to my wife, that I'm glad that I didn't have any boys, because I would have had to cross that bridge myself...But she said to me, don't worry, if you had a son, he would be circumcised whether you wanted it or not. She said its a matter of hygiene, and she would not allow any son of hers into the world without being circumcised. So I guess all is good here on the home front. Whats the trouble in yours?
Of course your wife could be wrong, nurses and doctors aren't always right.
She is right that it is hygienic, or I agree with that in any case, but it also puts the child in unnecessary risk.
Route A gets you to your destination faster, but also has the potential to kill you.
Route B Gets you to your destination not too much slower, but is perfectly safe.
Which route do you chose?
Circumcision has the potential to improve hygiene, but may put a baby at risk for disease and other things.
No circumcision might mean slightly worse hygiene, but doesn't introduce extra risks to the baby.
Will you circumcise your child?