I don't mind telling you that you, my husband, and a handful of other Christians that I've interacted with are the only reason why I don't loathe Christians and Christianity. I also don't mind saying that the person (whether he is a poe or not) who is posting hateful and malicious remarks about others while claiming to be a Christian only adds to my distaste for Christians because his posts remind me of the other hateful ones I've encountered in my lifetime.
Most Christians aren't like the more vocal people claiming to be Christian on the internet. Pretty decent folks I have found.
But some of the examples I encounter here remind me of passages of the Bible. In particular, Proverbs 6:16-19.
16 There are six things the Lord hates,
seven that are detestable to him:
17 haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,
18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,
19 a false witness who pours out lies
and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
Much of what I've been reading reminds me of the description in verse 19. I can't blame you for having an aversion to that type of person and some claiming Christianity fit that mold too perfectly in my view.