My religion accepts all people, but it does not accept all choices made by all individuals. Forgiveness of sins was given by Jesus, so one does not judge any individual as hopeless, since they, the individual, now have a mechanism to get a clean slate.
However, forgiveness of sin, is only needed if you do things that need forgiveness. The individual is always clean apart from some stains due to certain actions. This philosophy sets soft and loving guidelines, to help individuals, reach a state of grace, that does not need forgiveness, to wash off any dirt.
In my experiences, I have had many gay and lesbian friends who all were nice people. Many had human problems like most people. I found it difficult to judge them, when in person, but rather I felt friendships and compassion. My judgment only seems to happen while I was alone. These judgments would be connected to sin abstractions, in terms of general behavior. It was more about actions and choices, and not about any particular person, since nobody is perfect, and we all will need some forgiveness, in part.
In the spirit of behavior abstraction, in the context of acceptance of individuals, most of the pedophilic priests, went after boys, with this male and male interaction the definition of gay. The Church was tolerant of gay behavior way before it was faddish. This gay pedophile behavior was often buried by the church, since many people would judge other people by specific behavior and not the sum of who there are. Without this shady knowledge, the priests were more judged by their community service.
I often wondered about these pedophile choices. A Priest often chooses this path early in life. A boy can often accept the rules of being a priest, which require chastity and poverty to name a few. The boy is not married and he is poor living at the expense of their parents. When a priest is attracted to young males, they are sort of regressing back to their childhood and that cross roads of life, where choices made, that would cast a die, that would forever define their lives; hard adult reality meets boyhood dreams.
The boy victim is often at the same crossroads; alter boy, and the choice of the priest's past and the boys present, overlap. These illegal actions can make or break that choice for the boy and/or the priest. It reflects the choices, doubts and repressed desire of the priest, all mixed up with the nativity of youth.
When I was a child I thought that I would become a Catholic Priest. It seemed to be consistent with my nature. As a boy you are not married and you live off your parents. The extrapolation to a priest is just a extension of your youth, with the Church your parents. When I became an adolescent, I became more attracted to the secular world, money, females and science, but I could not fully release my vision and the choice of my youth. I became more or less stuck somewhere between the two mutually exclusive choices, unable to accept either path, 100%. This multitasking conflict was energy intensive and made me a man without a country. I felt a need to synthesis these two opposites paths into one; science/secular and religion, since both were needed for me to feel whole.