One more time: since no one has been capable of defeating my arguments, can I declare myself the winner of this debate?
Since you are not capable of realizing and admitting
instances when you are definitely shown to be wrong, you have disqualified yourself from this debate, as I explained
here. Therefore, you are free to declare yourself whatever you like, and no one will care.
For the benefit of everyone else, here are some points that should help clarify some things:
(1) A consequence of QM is that a measurement over here can have an instant effect on another measurement occurring very far away. This is, by definition, "nonlocality" and it has been demonstrated by experiments.
(2) However, this "quantum nonlocality" is of a special kind. You can't control how your measurement turns out, and therefore you can't control how the other distant person's measurement turns out, either. In other words, this is a statistical effect, not a strictly deterministic or causal effect. Because of this, quantum nonlocality does not violate Special Relativity, which prohibits faster-than-light
causal influences. It is worth distinguishing nonlocality as it occurs in QM from other kinds of nonlocality. For example, a faster-than-light force transmitting a casual influence, or a faster-than-light communication transmitting information, would violate Special Relativity. Sometimes people call all of these things "nonlocality" even though they are distinct, and this can cause confusion.
(3) In order to escape the straightforward QM interpretation of (1), you have to do some work. You might claim that QM makes correct statistical predictions, but really underneath it all everything is a deterministic clockwork (classical). So, for example, you might suppose that by some mechanism unknown to physicists ("hidden variables"), each particle in an entangled pair actually has a well-defined spin (up or down) as soon as they are separated from each other, before anyone does any measuring. If this were true, then QM would still give correct statistical predictions. But the QM interpretation in (1) would be wrong: my measurement over here would NOT actually affect your measurement way over there, in any way. IOW, there wouldn't be ANY kind of nonlocality, not even the weak "quantum" kind described in (2).
(4) Bell showed, in a nutshell, that supposing QM is incomplete and we adopt the seemingly reasonable alternative in (3), we get predictions which are in conflict with experiments. In other words, the alternative in (3) is wrong. The only way to save it is to modify it by: (a) assuming instantaneous influences can occur between distant particles, i.e. nonlocality; or (b) assume that QM is at least partially correct, in that particles really do follow statistical rules not just in appearance but in actuality--IOW the entangled pair discussed in (3) really didn't have definite spins (up or down) before measurement. Or you could assume both (a) and (b). Finally, you could give up on this alternative altogether and just accept QM as described in (1).
(5) Most physicists feel that since alternatives to QM still require weird assumptions or consequences in order to be compatible with experiment, we may as well just accept QM and the straightforward interpretation of experiments as described in (1).
For what it's worth: I'm a PhD candidate in physics with 2 grad courses and 1 undergrad course in QM, I've watched all the videos and read all the refs. posted by zaybu, I also checked my QM textbooks, and Legion and I consulted a number of peer-reviewed papers from Science, Nature, PNAS etc. I know from experience what my profs. and fellow students would say. This doesn't in and of itself make me right; again take it for what it's worth.