Did you ever consider that the blood of this man was different than any other man? And that the shedding of blood was just one small indispensible part of a greater more complete process that no other man went through?
Since everyone dies, whether or not Jesus died or when he died is not a key point. That Christ, the Avatar, voluntarily takes on the suffering of humanity by suffering Himself is key. And as you wrote, it's the greater purpose and impact of the suffering that is key.
As a follower of Meher Baba, who I accept as the Avatar, the Christ in a new body, I was taken by
this report of how God's suffering is not our suffering. Meher Baba had been in a bad car accident that resulted in injuries that pained him from then on.
The whole thing happened in the flash of an eye. When I came to, I found I was the only one in the back of the car. I stepped out and went to the front to see how Baba was and saw him reclining in the front seat, with blood on his clothes and face. Even though I saw Baba bleeding, never in my life have I seen such utter radiance and luster as was on Baba's face then! He was like a king, a victorious king who had won a great battle. Lord Krishna must have looked like that in his chariot on the victorious battlefield. The radiance was blinding! I could see nothing else, not the car, nor the surroundings, only Baba's face in glorious triumph!
Reading this, I don't need to be a Christian to understand that God's suffering for humanity is different than our suffering.
Of course
the converse would be billions of people that were shocked and surprised of how right they were.
Whether it's called the "kingdom of heaven", the New Creation, the New Humanity, I don't think anyone can fathom the reality given that we "see through a glass, darkly". We are blind and deaf to the reality that is coming. May we soon "see" and "hear" clearly.
That would be true… of course. My point was that atheists say they can be moral too as if there were no differences in morality.
To use a Christian approach, since the Kingdom of God is within everyone one whether they know it or not, whether they be atheist or not, there is no necessary intrinsic difference in morality. Apparently
John Wesley did not say these exact words, but he did make statements close enough for me. And there's no reason that anyone, Christian, Hindu, atheist cannot adopt this high morality:
Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.