what does useful mean itself..?
For me, it refers to that which can be used to effect desired outcomes, such as a recipe or a labor-saving device.
I had written, "Seeking comfort drives behavior. We run from the rain and bask in the sun. When thirsty, we drink. When bored, we seek stimulation"
How is seeking comfort useful? As I implied, it's a psychological imperative even in the beasts, but limited to short-term comforts, like lying in the shade rather than the sun because it's more comfortable. That's only part of it regarding a well-lived human life. We can learn to shelve our immediate comforts in exchange for more long-term comforts (defer gratification), such as getting an education or saving for retirement, but the goal remains to optimize the experience of life (the pursuit of happiness).
If intelligence is the ability to identify and solve problems to accomplish immediate goals, wisdom is the knowledge of what brings lasting contentment (long-term goals) and which short-term goals facilitate that.
Perhaps words like pleasure and comfort as goals are a bit misleading. They are if they mean only immediate pleasures. Wisdom seeks something more lasting and less intense as a baseline state of mind - kind of freedom from anxiety, loneliness, boredom and other states of mind that induce one to seek a remedy to reduce those bad feelings, and freedom from feelings like guilt, shame, and regret, which generally can't be easily remedied. Equanimity and ataraxia are roughly synonymous words for this baseline state.
Equanimity - "mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper"
Ataraxia - "a state of serene calmness"
Aren't Buddhism and Hinduism also about finding similar states, although not necessarily during this life? Isn't that what talk about suppressing dualistic thought or attaining eternal bliss following a cycle of rebirths? We could call bliss comfort or pleasure or peace of mind, or we could call it equanimity or ataraxia. It's all about the same thing: attaining a state of maximal euphorias (pleasant experiences, or comforts) and minimal dysphorias (unpleasant experiences, or discomforts).
Don't you find what you know to be usefull?
Yes, I do.
Also I don't find exactly my comfort in it when i look at my life. It could have been much easier , but it was not.
Do you mean that you suffered hardships imposed on you by circumstances or that you could have worked less hard? If the former, I'm sorry to read that. If the latter, well-played assuming that your extra efforts were rewarded.
The road to succes is to learn and win.
OK. The trick is to identify what success looks like (wisdom) and to develop the habits and traits that facilitate that.
Many Christians worldwide are also comfortable living without a god belief or a religion.
You can't mean what the words there say. That's my definition of an atheist. Add a god belief and you have a theist. Christians are theists, although I suppose there are probably people that identify as Christian culturally without actually being theists, a quality found in many Jews, some f which even enjoy synagogue for the culture and community, but don't believe in the god of Abraham.
My critic on this forum was and will be the same as always, "Not many here know about the study of the entire New Testament and yet have the courage to talk about it."
Why is that a problem for you? I'm sure that you know more about it than I do, but I don't think that that extra learning has much value. I was a zealous Christian for a decade and read the Christian Bible through three times, but all I remember today are the myths, the supernaturalism, the Ten Commandments, and the Golden Rule. I am aware that it also contains some history, 603 more commandments, genealogies, psalms, proverbs, and prophecies, but I can't tell you much about the specifics any of those anymore.
I can provide the necessary information, but do you have the time for it? It will take me some time but i think i can menage it in 20 long posts. And that is just basics.
If you're referring to religious instruction, thanks, but I'm quite content with life (comfortable), and therefore not looking for a different worldview or way of living.
You(3rd person) say it like it's some bad thing or something like that.
That was a response to, "A theist is somebody who has some need met by those, and who would feel a void without it, which is a kind of discomfort."
I consider it less desirable to need or benefit from a religion than not. It's great for you if it makes you feel more complete or connected or watched over or whatever need would resurface if you experienced a crisis of faith, but I think it's great for me that I have no such unfulfilled needs living outside of religion. My atheistic humanist worldview does that without a religion, which makes my life just that much less complicated.
Why do you think that you can reject the facts surrounding the New Testaments? These events are considered History, didn't you know that?
I don't reject any facts, but we might have different ideas regarding what is a fact. My guideline for that is empiricism, not faith.
I am interested to know why did you said this: "What's a lazier answer than "God did it"?
It's not an answer if by answer we mean a demonstrably correct explanation. Instead, it's an unfalsifiable guess that has insufficient supporting evidence to believe, offers no mechanism, makes no useful predictions, and thus has no practical value.
Moreover, it removes the incentive to discover how something actually occurred, such as the advent of life. If we say, "God did it," there's no incentive to look to see how nature might have done it without a god. "God did it" is lazier than research.