Kathryn
It was on fire when I laid down on it.
so saying all things work together for good, doesn't really make logical sense because the loss of a loved one isn't good in the here and now.
In one year, I lost my husband, my thriving business, my home, my career, my son was arrested, my daughter moved across the country with my precious granddaughter, my mother had a massive stroke and became disabled and my dad leaned totally on me, and to top it all off - my beloved dog died! And then I found out that my husband had tried to cheat the IRS and they were after me for $23,000.
Now - I'm not saying this is as bad as losing your wife and daughter in an accident, but...it's pretty damn bad.
My point is that all of that - ALL OF IT - by the time it ran full circle, worked out for the best, and my life is better now than it was before that fateful year. But I had to hold onto my belief that all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord and are called to His purpose - I had to hang onto that hope for dear life while I was going through all that. And I can honestly say I never did lose faith, even in the midst of such turmoil and heartbreak.
I've also had a stillborn child - and a number of other pretty significant tragedies in my life. All that happened in less than a year though. Yes, it was pretty tough.
By the way - I worked things out with the IRS - so sometimes, things aren't as bad as we think they are - or are GOING to be.
All those things made me the person I am today - the person my husband loves and who has a very fulfilling life.