What are the main factors that makes non-muslims be hesitated about converting to Islam?
You know, ironically many of us are studying Islam and the Qur'an as it is. some of us have been studying and visiting the cultures who practice Islam.
the one crucial issue that many attempted conversions fail again and again to confront or even fail at seeing, is that many of us have also been studying and facing the
social concerns of our own countries or communities
We have to study and debate the current social issues. these studies keep us informed, and battle tested, they reassure us much more than converting to the faith of a community neither you nor them are accostumed to each other's habits or cultural baggage.
many people have studied hard the matter at hand, and are firm and opinionated. they have their base pillar already. when it comes to religious studies, social studies, or international studies.
they stick to what they know.
these people have no desire to leave the ship they are sailing on.
they have no dreams of an island of paradise, but they are focused on their job, on their work, and on their study.
they use their ship and sail on her to travel to the same destinations they are accostumed to, they use her to handle the same trade.
for example, taking the Hebrew Bible from under the feet of Western cultures, is like deciding not to use the city grids the Romans have left for us. it would mean changing to different calendars, it would mean examining your own political mindset. the mere thought of uprooting all these every day essentials and realities, and miserably failing to place them on another Abrahamic faith is not very reassuring, nor does it give you a promise for a better tomorrow.
stick to what you know. is what most professors would say.
We all have a long cultural and historical platform. we should all use it. stand on it. debate it, and return to it, at the end of each debate.
trust me it would make life much more interesting.
I: Propaganda of western media about the stereotype of Muslims with radical-fundamental attitudes?
we all recognize this.
II: Difficulty of avoiding most of the forbidden habits like drinking alcohol and ...?
Most people I meet on a day to day basis seem to have an exessive behavior of some sort, non-muslim and Muslim alike. conversion will not make this go away.
Studying Islam is a reassurnig process. debating or discussing it also reassures me, that despite many disagreements, people are making the efforts to amend the misconceptions and holes they hold about the major players in politics and culture. both the contermporary and the historical.
You want to know Islam?
then study it.
converting as an act of desperation will not fill in the hard labour of studying. I can guarantee you, that what you will find in Islam, you can already find by reading the material of the your own civilizations or general civilizations, and by reading a body of literature which gives you a decent spinal cord. the library keeps you firm when you stray from your main body of studies to neighbour disciplines.