I agree that an "open" category might resolve some of these issues, although the process of determining who is appropriate for which category would vary from sport to sport.
Yes, very much so.
I don't take sports as seriously as I once did. I think the idolizing of the "jock culture" has had a somewhat negative effect on the culture overall, particularly when it comes to things like toxic masculinity and bullying.
I think we need to be careful when assessing sports that we are specific with what is good, what is bad, and at what level we are talking.
As a simplistic example, I'm not here defending the common cultural issues prevalent in top line professional males sport. Despite liking it, there are many areas where drastic improvement are required.
I'm involved in junior girls sport, and I very strongly believe that both the team environment I can build in that setting, and the direct relationships fostered between girls, in their community, etc, are extremely positive.
I also think expressions of body positivity for girls...particularly in some cases bigger girls (I'm a basketball coach) can be transformative.
It's a common trope in our culture to portray the big, muscle-headed jock picking on the bookish, intellectual, 98-pound weakling, and I attribute much of this mentality to the glorification and hero-worship associated with major league sports and bigtime athletes. I would also say that it relates to the perceived anti-intellectualism which many people are complaining about. Think of a state like Texas where they reject science, reject evolution, reject vaccines - yet football is practically a state religion.
Or think of a state like Victoria, which had very high levels of vaccine compliance and yet football is much more of a state religion than something we largely ignore...actual religion.
As you yourself have put here, you're dealing with tropes and perceptions.
If you want to make a specific point about (say) college football in Texas and the role it plays in encouraging and reinforcing misdirected hero worship, then honestly, I get it. The combination of educational institutions cheapening their degrees and behavioural standards to get in 'student-athletes' and the level to which sports is used to paper over cracks is something I find pretty upsetting.
But...and I did declare my biases in the OP...I'm working with grassroots female sport. The club I (voluntarily) work at is the largest junior basketball club in the Southern Hemisphere. It partners with another large club to run the largest single junior basketball tournament in the world. Bigger than anything in the States, even. (By participants)
And the culture, community feel, body positivity, and ability of people to participate regardless of ability is pretty amazing.
As a father of three girls, I am frankly ecstatic that they're spending nights during the week, and time over the weekend playing organised and properly supervised basketball. They have friends outside of their school groups, they have increased strength and resiliency, and they have improved physical health, which I firmly believes leads to better mental health outcomes on the median.
Whilst I'd reject ever being a 98 pound weakling, I was an intellectual kid who went to a rough school, and grew up in a working class suburb. I've seen both sides of the role sports can play in helping someone like I was either fit in, or become a target. I'm not ignorant of what you're talking about. But the culture at the very large club I'm involved with is not 'Lord of the Flies'-esque.
Physical education classes seemed more set up to prepare boys for boot camp than anything else. My junior high school P.E. teacher was a former drill instructor in the military.
I think what you're saying is that there should be a strong student welfare and educational component in teaching and coaching kids. And if that's not present, it can be quite harmful. I COMPLETELY agree. I've seen good, and I've seen bad.
If...as I do ..you think sports can be a great positive force, it also means it can be a great negative one. Whereas something that has little impact in a positive sense is also quite probably less dangerous.
I'm not trying to steer away from the topic, but in order to get a handle on this issue, it might be worthwhile to look back and try to determine why these sports became so important and serious in many people's eyes. Meaning no disrespect, but when you say you take sports very seriously, I have to ask: Why? It's just a game, after all.
Life is just a game. Teaching kids, raising kids, and coaching kids all have common elements to me, and all can be done well...or poorly.
I take sports seriously because I think it's impactful for many kids. I've busted a gut this season on my subjectively 'worst' player. It has nothing to do with her becoming a star...or even competent...at basketball.
She has a tricky home life, is on the spectrum, has major self esteem issues, and has been taught by multiple people that failing is bad, and that taking risks can lead to failure.
There is only so much of that...just...crap that's been jammed into her skull that I can help with. But I've known this girl since she was born (albeit somewhat superficially). Coaching her for one season I've been able to get her to see that failing is the only path to improving, and is a normal part of life. And...even more happily...the messaging from her mother (who loves her, but is an anxious type) has changed to celebrating her daughter failing in new and more assertive ways.
She's scored multiple times this season, after having played for 5
seasons without scoring.
Basketball is a vehicle, but the lessons are about life. It is...in my humble opinion...a much better vehicle than religion, and far less harmful. Despite that, I'm okay with people toddling off to church.
(The last is tongue in cheek, but hopefully I've expressed my thoughts for you.)