Moonjuice
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey
We are still not using the word "Faith" the same way. I already spelled out that I am using the "firm belief in something which there is no conclusive evidence" definition of faith. You are using it to mean "trust". Evidently, if you use the word faith in a relationship, it has to be used only when absolute certainty exists? Why?If you were married or in serious relationship, wouldn't you have to have faith that your partner would not cheat, ir that she would do her fair share in the relationship? How could you ever know absolutely? If you had a cat or dog going for surgery, wouldn't you have to have faith in the vet performing the surgery? If you quit a job and got a new job wouldn't you need faith in yourself, that the new job would work out? How could you know absolutely?
Of course you can trust a veterinarian to use her skills to perform surgery on your cat, does that also require absolute certainty that you know the vet will save your cats life? No, you only need conclusive evidence to convince you that the vet can be trusted. You have evidence that suggests a vet is the most capable person to handle the job, which is why you took your cat to the vet and not to a plumber. I think "trust" is based on evidence. It can be conclusive (lead you to a conclusion) even if its not based on good evidence, it is still based on evidence and doesn't require "faith".
Trust does have levels of evidence required, based on the claim being made. For example, if you said you saw a white truck drive past your house, without knowing you at all, I would "trust" you are telling the truth. Why? Because this is an ordinary claim of an action that happens everyday. I have evidence that trucks drive by houses all the time. Based on that evidence, I would trust you. However, if you told me an invisible truck drove by your house, I would not be able to trust you. It would require that you provide sufficient evidence (because invisible trucks are not known to exist, you would have to prove they exist before we could consider the claim that one drove by your house). This is the opposite of an ordinary claim, this is an extraordinary claim. Which as you know, would require extraordinary evidence to be believed by a reasonably thinking person, certainly not faith.
I do not have faith that my wife of 27 years is not going to cheat. I trust that she wont based on mountains of evidence, which grows everyday. At a minimum, she 1. made a commitment to me to be faithful, right in the beginning. 2. She has convinced me she loves me through her daily actions. 3. Everyday she reminds me how faithful and committed to our marriage she is. 4. I have been in a monogamous relationship with her for 30 years. She has never done single thing that would ever lead to me to believe that she would ever be unfaithful. I don't need to know with "absolute" certainty, in order to be convinced by the evidence that my wife is and will continue to be faithful. Until evidence is presented that would lead me to believe otherwise, I "trust" the evidence I have now. If you want to call that faith, you can, but that is not the way I am using the word faith. Nor is that the way the OP used it.