Having had a difficult few weeks I can tell you how much less I care about fairness. In Australia things are set up to benefit people who've had a bad upbringing.
We were robbed on the 12th of June. I lost my car and my laptop and the better looking half lost all her jewelery. We're fully insured but I was told that as a high income earner I'd never win a civil case against the people who broke into our house because they're "disadvantaged." therefore, I have to cop insurance excesses and loss of value to my car on the chin " because I can afford to."
I said to police all I want to do is recover the cost of our losses having to make insurance claims and the depreciation of my car. Apparently if you're a screw up from state housing you're entitled to more civil rights than the people who work hard to pay for your welfare benefits and drugs.
I love society.
We've been burglarized, too. Lost nearly all of our valuables as a result of no power in our house due to an ice storm. We left our house to stay warm at a relative's house, and came back to see it raked through by burglars.
It sucks. No justice done to those who invaded our house and took what they wanted. But we were able to replace our valuables over time. My advice is to focus on the fact that you're both alive and unhurt. If I had to make the choice between our stuff being taken or one of us being taken, it's obvious what's more important.