There are reasons why translations differ, but you are right when you say that ancient (and even modern societies) have differing genders for words we take in common. So the fact that the holy spirit is in the male term does not mean it is equal to the other two godpersons. Furthermore, when Jesus spoke of the holy spirit, he said soon thereafter that God is greater than he (Jesus) is. While the holy spirit is referenced in the male gender, there is nothing to say that it is equal to the other two godpersons. In fact --
John 14:28 - You heard that I said to you, ‘I am going away, and I am coming to you.’ If you loved Me, you would have rejoiced because I am going to the Father, for the
Father is greater than I." (
New American Standard Bible)