Ask the Russians. Their reasons are theirs; but the fact remains that they decided to meddle in our election in Trump’s favor.
As far as how much meddling they did or what actual influence it had over the voters is still unclear. We've had two large factions at odds with each other in America, divided by a huge rift, and that's been mostly our fault, not the Russians. The Russians certainly did not create the rift dividing America, nor did they form the ideological bases of the various factions involved.
At most, they may have taken advantage of weaknesses within our system, but they did not create those weaknesses. That's on us.
But you're right: We should ask the Russians what they want. Although it shouldn't be that difficult to figure out by a careful examination of Russian history and an honest attempt to try to see things from their point of view. That's what appears to be missing in this whole debate over Russian meddling. Too many people are falling over themselves trying to portray the Russians as devils with horns that they've lost sight of the fact that the Russians might very well have rational reasons for doing what they do (assuming that they even did this at all).
If we’re speculating, having an inept and erratic person, who is in their debt and is inclined to see them favorably, as the President of their greatest challenger, would give them greater room to grow as a world power again.
They are a world power. They've been a world power longer than we have, and they never stopped being a world power.
For decades, I have recognized the need for greater cooperation between America, Russia, and China. I think that a three-way alliance between the top three superpowers in the world would be an enormous step towards greater world stability. The main reason we have trouble in so many hot spots in the world (North Korea, Iran, etc.) is because the small fry have been adept at playing the major powers off against each other. This has to stop.
Chaos is undoubtedly desirable to them as well. Trump stokes chaos. And yes, angering Americans and causing them to doubt their democracy is also desirable.
I don't think the Russians want chaos.
As for Americans, many have been angry and doubting their democracy since at least the 1960s (and many of those doubts were rooted in questionable Cold War era policies and the obsessive nature of the xenophobic and anti-communist attitudes prevalent during that time).
We should have continued to be angry and doubt our democracy, which might have generated enough support for true reforms in our political and economic system. Instead, most Americans chose to stick their heads in the sand while humming the tune "Don't Worry, Be Happy."
It's ironic that many of Trump's opponents try to paint him as a xenophobe, yet they're the ones howling and panicking about alleged "foreign influence." So, who are the true xenophobes in all this?
As far as Democrats being angrier than Republicans: seriously, do conservatives just not remember how they acted during Obama’s Presidency? They called him the anti-Christ.
They also called him a socialist, but that was incorrect. In terms of economic and foreign policies, Obama was Bush Lite. He was never a socialist. As for being the anti-Christ, someone would have to first prove that there was a Christ before they can accuse anyone of being an anti-Christ.
Their elected officials abdicated their role as legislators in favor of pure obstructionism. Obama was under a microscope. And Hilary was hated even more. Could you imagine what conservatives would do if they found out that a foreign government waged a secret campaign do get Clinton elected? They would be tearing this country apart. If we were lucky, she merely would have been impeached 6 mo ago.
There were some accusations about alleged Chinese influence in the (Bill) Clinton White House.
Apart from that, what you're describing is just the usual political shenanigans which the American public has tacitly accepted. The media on both sides have continued to stoke those fires, and neither side has made even a half-hearted attempt to try to be the voice of reason in all this chaos.
So yeah, take your “let’s blame the victims!” mentality and throw it in the garbage where it belongs. It is not the fault of Democrats that the Russians decided to undermine our democracy in support of Trump.
It is the Democrats' fault for nominating Hillary instead of Sanders. That's where they went wrong.
If anything is undermining our democracy, it's widespread ignorance of the electorate (fostered by our own media, not the Russians') along with extreme partisanship and loyalty to political organizations and personalities while abandoning principles.