How would you reconcile justice and mercy (love)? Would you say that mercy (love) can rob justice? What do you think would be a way to satisfy justice so that mercy could have its effect? Or, do you believe that justice can be completely disregarded by mercy?
I think that by speaking in these broad terms, you've over-simplified the concepts of justice and mercy to the point where we can't talk about them reasonably.
Colossians 2 is instruction on avoiding the philosophies of men and reliance on the merits of Christ's atonement. Where (what verse) do you see as implying such a reversal?
The bit about Christ "tearing down the written law that once bound us".
I Timothy 4 's reference to forbidding to marry is (I believe) a reference to the Essenes, who enjoined celibacy on their adherents. To my understanding, the purpose of this erroneous injunction had to do with the idea of remaining pure and undefiled.
... which is actually in line with a lot of the stuff in the Pauline epistles, where Paul recommends not marrying and instead becoming a "eunuch for Christ".
Like I said, there are a number of interpretations. It's a typical Biblical prophecy in that it's vague enough to point to many groups or time periods, but not so clear that anyone could ever conclusively say that the prophecy had failed.
I think you are making significant stretches in trying to make these passages fit with SJW thought.
I think you've misunderstood me. I'm definitely not saying that the Bible is progressive; I'm saying that it's an echo chamber or a mirror. Anyone of any persuasion can look at it and find passages that support their position.
If you'd prefer, I can pull out the verses that support the other extreme: genocide, slavery, subjugation of women, anti-semitism, etc. That's all there, too. There are horrible things in the Bible that no "SJW" or even right-wing conservative Evangelical would think are good or just.
As I said, it has something for everyone.