I know several people who've converted to Christianity, and I have questioned them. I know why people convert, and I know how they are converted as well as how it should work and how they should be converted. They should convert following the formula given in the book Ruth -- because they like Christians and so want to be Christian; but its ok if they convert for other reasons. Conversion is a long process not a moment of transformation
. What is Not OK (NOK) is for Christians and Churches to try to convert people using any means other than simple ones. No pressure or carrots or arguing should be used, because this makes conversion less successful. Matthew 12:45 comments upon the problem of partial conversion, where Jesus speaks of it as if a demon leaves a person and then comes back worse. You could think of it as someone who is getting over a sickness and then instead of resting, immediately goes back to work and then gets even more sick. I Corinthians 11:17 suggests that a divided church is worse than no church at all, and Luke 9:62 warns that partial conversion is not conversion, using the example of someone who tries to plow backwards or who plows with their head pointed backwards.
People sometimes convert:
- because of a desperate need for financial or other assistance.
- As a means of strengthening their families.
- To connect with God
- To learn about Christianity
- To find their own identity
- just on a lark, for a laugh
- they are deeply impressed by a Christian they know and love (The same as Ruth's conversion) Good!
- their family or a friend recommends it
- they worry about death
- the literature fascinates them
- they desire influence and power
- they see an opportunity to cash in
- they are attracted to vulnerable people and see opportunities to control others
- they are in a Christian culture and "If you can't beat'm join'm
- they want to learn how to destroy Christianity
- they are lonely
- they need a job
- they work for a church
- they are in a drug rehab or other rehab program
- they enjoy church services or worship
- they like Christian dating
- they want to change something about their way of life or some habit
- to hide from their past
- to become part of the local community where they have moved
- to make business contacts
- as missionaries to change or alter Christians or to influence Christians
- to find out if healing miracles are real
- to find out if demons are real
- to experience ecstasy (such as in very fervent worship services)
- to help them with government work
- to get volunteers for social projects
- they are talented public speakers
- they want to help people
- churches are pretty
- churches are sacred buildings
- other reasons (this is not an exhaustive list)