prometheus11
Well-Known Member
Of course, Carlita.
Perception is always an issue. The person who perceives an imaginary relationship as real don't recognize the imaginary nature of the relationship. And that's why believers are so antagonistic concerning atheism; they're facing the possibility of losing a real relationship to an imaginary one. They're faced with acknowledging that they haven't been having sex with another real individual, they've been having vivid fantasies during masturbation.
The issue is what can be demonstrated as real. The woman who came to take my place was real (or seemed to be) and consequently, was more valuable to me than the ones I knew to be imaginary although an acceptable facsimile without a real relationship to be had.
But, let's assume that all relationships are imaginary. In that case, don't we still value most the ones who seem to be real over those we know to be hallucinations?
Or, consider the mathematician John Nash. By rigorous application of logic, he was able to determine which of his relationships were hallucinations and which were with actual people. Because of this determination and his valuation of real relationships over his hallucinatory relationships, he was able to control his mental illness to an unimaginable degree. His valuation of real relationships over imaginary ones saved his life, his career, his business, his work and etcetera.
Nash's models and work is the foundation for thousands of business deals on Wall Street and in business. Long after his death, his formulas and models are still invaluable and being used by thousands of people right now and every second....all because he valued real relationships over imaginary ones.
That dynamic is why I think real relationships are more important than imaginary ones. And I think experiences with both types and their consequences bear that out.
Perception is always an issue. The person who perceives an imaginary relationship as real don't recognize the imaginary nature of the relationship. And that's why believers are so antagonistic concerning atheism; they're facing the possibility of losing a real relationship to an imaginary one. They're faced with acknowledging that they haven't been having sex with another real individual, they've been having vivid fantasies during masturbation.
The issue is what can be demonstrated as real. The woman who came to take my place was real (or seemed to be) and consequently, was more valuable to me than the ones I knew to be imaginary although an acceptable facsimile without a real relationship to be had.
But, let's assume that all relationships are imaginary. In that case, don't we still value most the ones who seem to be real over those we know to be hallucinations?
Or, consider the mathematician John Nash. By rigorous application of logic, he was able to determine which of his relationships were hallucinations and which were with actual people. Because of this determination and his valuation of real relationships over his hallucinatory relationships, he was able to control his mental illness to an unimaginable degree. His valuation of real relationships over imaginary ones saved his life, his career, his business, his work and etcetera.
Nash's models and work is the foundation for thousands of business deals on Wall Street and in business. Long after his death, his formulas and models are still invaluable and being used by thousands of people right now and every second....all because he valued real relationships over imaginary ones.
That dynamic is why I think real relationships are more important than imaginary ones. And I think experiences with both types and their consequences bear that out.