Any question that is about God(s) is always unavoidably vague.
While I see where you're coming from here, this sounds like an excuse to me. Vagueness in theological discussions is not unavoidable, it's a choice. You have chosen not to lay out a more exacting framework from which we can meaningfully answer this question.
At the very least, it would be nice to operationally define "healthy relationship" and "god."